i'm so effing pissed right now.
My brother entered into a relationship with my best friend two years ago...i tried to tell them both...not a good idea...and i was really uncomfortable being put in the middle considering i knew them both so well.
she is controlling and thinks her shit don't stink...she is a taker and never a giver in relationships.
He is weak minded and has a low self esteem...
they break up every couple of months. and for the most part the only time i hear from either of them is when they do break up.
they have their relationship set up to where they are completely dependant on each other, no friends, no family...no nothing. so every once in a while one of them start feeling like they need more...and they strike up a friendship with someone...instantly the other accuses them of cheating.
so now they are having a baby...happy time right?
now today...his girlfriend/my bestie calls me...she is mad because my brother told her that he started talking with someone...a girl he met at his work. completely platonic. she is nice and listens and gives him attention which...my friend does not...so what is the first thing she does...first calls her mother to tell her how fucked up my brother is...and then me...and says if he doesn't change she will leave him...with the kid
ok...here's the thing...i told her...
girl...ur relationship is set up like this. it shouldn't be. u should be able to have friends...but more then anything how come everytime you two get into a fight, you say you're leaving him and taking the baby, you can't ask him to change because you got pregnant.
he is needy, but would never ever cheat on her and would never do or say anything to hurt her.
i hate that women have the right to take away babies, and make these choices...and the men don't get any choices.
