But to be in love this is something I can remember wanting more than any thing. Until, I realized the difference between being in love and being loved by someone I loved the difference is like night and day. It is even harder to believe or yet imagine that there are some who use love for their own personal gain. This and other pitfalls do exist along the road of love, one of GOD'S gifts. The all mighty might have reconsidered the whole concept, once he him self had experienced the miracle. On any given day one can see many examples of dementia’s ones partial delusion love defined. As an example always copping the attitude "what you can do for me” this is also accompanied by must reward my self or simply me phrase. How did we come so far only to fall so short? It dose make most stop and wonder, but not usually until after they have experienced the effect of the "dementia love bug". Once lived, felt, loved the other side of the coin their attitude changes somewhat. Then they are partially aware of their partner's feelings, and how the acknowledgement of their feelings is important. Simple acknowledgement can lead to a better understanding of each other. Don’t be scared to find out how you as an individual are compatible with others and then, express your true feelings in a positive and constructive manor. This could result in the beginning of a friendship (leaving possibilities open). Doesn’t this beat having someone around just to ignore them? Even having read this, it will do no good for most, unless they have had "the love bug".