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Heartbreaker's blog: "Inside my head"

created on 09/14/2006  |  http://fubar.com/inside-my-head/b481

My advice for men

So whats with men? Now this is directed toward anyone specifically but honestly, you complain that you can't find a girl. Or you find one but she just wants to "be" with you. Now there are many reasons why a guy can be single either you have the guys who just chose to be single or you have the ones who are really looking for a good girl not just one to "be" with. And what about all the lies you guys tell girls. I always here about how this chick lied to you or this one cheated on you. Well you guys aren't exactly innocent in that whole area either now are you? And what happen to the old fashion stuff? Now for the guys who are looking for a girl but cant find one...have you guys thought about that girl who is always there, right in front of your face? Ya know not the one who is NOT a bitch, maybe not the hottess but still attractive. The one who actually cares about YOU? Or what about the one who isn't perfect and knows it but would still do anything for you to be happy? The one you know you can trust, I mean come on everyone wants someone they can trust right? Why not chose the one you know you can trust. The girl that wants to be with you because you are you not because of what you're like in bed. As for the whole "she lied, she cheated." Shut the hell up. Honestly how many of you used that line when you your self cheated or lied? Now I have a question maybe one of you guys will have the courage to answer it for me, if you already have a girl who is probably giving it up to you, why do you need another one on the side? Eventually its going to come back and bite you in the ass and chances are you'll lose both. If you don't want to be with one then tell her, break it off before you go and make another girl fall for you. Oh and while I'm on the subject of making someone fall for you, before you make her fall be sure you'll catch her. Now I know what you're thinking...what about the psychos who falls for any guy that says hi to them...well thats different, but most of the time you can tell those from the girls who don't fall that much. So unless you're ready...dont make someone fall for you. Now the old fashion stuff. Whats that you ask? Well see you would know if we saw more of it. Now some, SOME of you do some of these things but not all. For example..open the door, we like it...we might play like we're annoyed with it...but we love it. Oh yeah you want to know why we disagree when you tell us we are hot or sexy. Well thats why. We are sick of hearing we are hot or sexy. We hear it all the time. In fact everyone is hot and sexy. We want to hear we are beautiful, heck pretty isnt as great but its better then hot or sexy. You start saying beautiful and we'll bring back handsome. Presents...flowers are nice for a first day. Once things get a little more serious stuffed animals are cute. Jewlery...don't jump into that so soon, we still like the simple stuffed animals. In fact the only piece of Jewlery most of us want is a ring, and thats only when the relationship is ready. Now Im not saying dont buy any jewlery, Im just saying wait until its pretty serious. 3 months is not serious. Little surprises are always nice too. Oh and why is it we don't like to pick things to do or where to go on a date. Because we want a second date maybe a third. So if we let you pick then chances are its going to be something you like and we want you happy. Hold our hand in public. Introduce us to your friends. Hold us. Kiss us when no one is looking and kiss us when they are. Kiss our hand, whatever happen to that? And our forehead. And after the date walk us to the door and kiss us goodnight. And wait until we get inside before you turn around and leave. Thats the old fashion stuff we miss. Now heres just some other advice for your own good. If you love and really love her...just tell her. Don't tell her you love her just to get in her pants its not right and chances are she'll tell everyone and eventually it will get around that you're a jerk. If she says she loves you, but you don't feel the same...dont say I love you back. Let her know how you feel..she'll appreciate it much more then a lie. Don't lie or cheat. Be honest and trust her like you would want her to trust you. Remember beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Not the person who put that skinny blond on the magazine. Not everyone looks like that, thats what makes us different. Oh yeah you know that girl you like to hang out with because she is your best friend or a really really good friend think about how she makes you feel, really think about it because you might be missing out on the best thing that could happen to you. I know you guys seen at least one chick flick, the guy at the start of the movie is a jerk but by the end is all sweet and everything...yeah girls like the sweetie. Believe it or not...not all nice guys finish last, so lose the asshole image and be the true you. Now if anyone took the time to read this thing I hope you rethink somethings or you at least learned something you can use to try to get that girl. Remember we are humans not a piece of meat.
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