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How to Approach Me! → How to Date Me! → How to Sexually Seduce Me!
Enjoy the report, contemplate the information and insights it provides and good luck in applying the results here at the Plenty of Fish community! You can also send test results to others using your special link at the bottom of this report.
Plentyoffish Seduction Style Guide Results
Passion Preludes: The Big Picture of Me
The overall answer patterns suggest that rebelrose1269 is well-versed with the complex games related to romance and passion, having had perhaps both meaningful and just-for-fun sexual experiences. People like rebelrose1269 may seem to have different sides – in some situations they’ll come across reserved and conservative, while other times they will be utterly wild and crazy. People like this have a good handle over their thoughts and feelings most of the time, but they also know when it’s appropriate to be impulsive and sensual. These individuals tend to be very curious and open to new experiences when enticed, if they don’t feel rushed or pressured. Thus, people like rebelrose1269 tend to “warm up” or are obviously aroused fairly easily when they feel in control of the situation and good about the interaction.
What Makes This Type So Attractive? People of a medium seducability tend to be fairly, if not very, secure with their sexual selves and their erotic nature. Seeing themselves as having a healthy outlook on sex and relationships, they are looking for someone who respects their values and boundaries, but who will, at the same time, challenge their sexual curiosity and willingness to risk themselves emotionally and sexually. This sort is attractive for their…
• Sex-positive view, which is usually consistent with their actions and notions of a healthy relationship. That, combined with an optimistic attitude toward romance, makes their charm and energy infectious.
• Sexual self-confidence, with many having a keen awareness as to their likes and dislikes.
• Loving nature. Not nearly as on guard as the other two categories at times, this sort can be more cuddlesome and affectionate.
• Sense of responsibility for another. Respect, mutuality and caretaking are huge, especially as they become more devoted to a partner.
• Flirtatious nature, but the fact that it is of a selective nature. They don’t flirt with just anyone, and can be terribly intoxicating when channeling their time and energy into you.
Tips for Tempting This Type:
rebelrose1269 is keen to play on a level playing field. So... Don’t take advantage of the pleasure rebelrose1269 has in being a pleaser. After all, they equally enjoy being pleased! Do listen as much as you talk and feel free to express yourself while you’re getting to know rebelrose1269, but absolutely show the same courtesy to rebelrose1269.
Someone like this often appreciates having a sense of control. So… Don’t give rebelrose1269 a false sense of security, e.g., you like the person, but can’t handle the relationship, or like the relationship more than the person. Do frequently gauge rebelrose1269’s comfort level by asking questions as well as asking for feedback about yourself.
These individuals need to be continually stimulated emotionally and sexually. So… Don’t overdo the compliments or they’ll lose their meaning and impact. Do make a point to tell rebelrose1269 what you especially and sincerely like about them – what they say, what they do or even their overall demeanor – as you’re getting to know this person.
Bottom Line: This person is not naïve or a prude, so avoid insulting rebelrose1269 in ways such as treating rebelrose1269 like a delicate piece of glass or someone who lacks a brain, Rather, share your thoughts and feelings in great detail with this person. Test the waters, inviting discourse on what two people can find intellectually and sexually stimulating together. These individuals thrive on establishing good rapport and can enjoy a healthy level of ‘pushing their boundaries’.
Step 1: How to Approach Me!
A person’s “approach” to rebelrose1269 lays the foundation for Steps 2 and 3 of seduction. Three elements help define an overall “approach:”
• What kind of flirt you are (Flirting Style)
• How you pace your interactions (Pace)
• Your dating attitude (Creativity and Sense of Humor)
Let’s explore the elements of an “approach” that are likely to get rebelrose1269 to notice you.
Know My Favorite Flirting Styles
Online dating involves a wide range of possible online flirting behaviors. Men and women prefer many of the same flirting strategies, but those strategies are often weighted slightly differently between the sexes. The Plenty of Fish Seduction Survey reveals these hidden trends as well as some new, inside information on how to present yourself as you’re using these flirting tactics. Let the game of seduction begin.
Women’s Top Ten Favorite Ways to Have Someone Flirt with Them
1. Talks about things she likes or dislikes, making comments and showing interest
2. Displays concern for her, her feelings and well-being
3. Shares jokes or amusing anecdotes with her
4. Compliments her on her screen name, attitude, personality and appearance
5. Sends her special/cute email messages
6. Makes an effort to contact her in some form most every day
7. Sends instant messages when she and you are online at the same time
8. Discusses seriously the traits she desires in a partner
9. Shows her your daring or mischievous side
10. Emails her greeting cards, gifts, pictures songs or fun attachments
Flirting Styles that TURN ME ON
1. Witty (someone who draws you in with words and quick thinking).
2. Confident (people who are direct and zero in what they want and go for it).
3. Sexy (in-your-face with exuding sexuality and in being flirtatious with words and touches).
Flirting Styles that TURN ME OFF
1. Playful and natural (someone who lets the inner child shine through).
2. Coy (someone who’s a little reclusive and who plays hard to get).
3. Manipulative (someone who sends mixed signals and leaves you wondering if they are interested in you or not – basically a person who is into the power dynamics that come with a relationship, and who will ultimately have the upper hand, especially in seducing each other).
Know My Preferred Pace
When it comes to talking to rebelrose1269 about an offline meeting or date, rebelrose1269 prefers to have someone communicate with them via:
telephone
instant messaging
email
Generally speaking, rebelrose1269 prefers communicating with someone online at least one or two weeks before meeting them offline. Therefore, rebelrose1269 may well want to talk to family and friends about you and get their feedback. Or, rebelrose1269 may well be trying not to get too caught up in the moment and first see how you handle yourself online over the course of many conversations. Allow this person some time and space before pushing to meet.
A note of caution from the relationship experts! Warning signs of online predators or people with abusive tendencies include someone who:
• Makes demeaning or inappropriate remarks.
• Provides inconsistent information about his/her age, appearance, marital status or employment.
• Refuses to provide a recent photo or series of photos.
• Refuses to talk on the phone as the relationship develops.
• Insists on seeing (or having) photos of your children or knowing considerable details about them early in the relationship.
And whenever meeting someone offline, note these safety tips!
• When you’re ready to meet someone in person, choose a public place such as a café or coffee shop, preferably during the day.
• You may want to keep the first meeting casual and brief (e.g. an hour).
• Take your own car or transportation. Don’t offer to pick up your date or let them pick you up.
• Tell a friend or family member about your plans and where you’ll be on your date.
• Never bring your children with you when meeting someone for the first time. And be hesitant about showing photos of your child as well.
• You can have a friend sit at a nearby table in a coffee shop or café to keep an eye on you, if you would feel more comfortable.
• Carry a cell phone with you on the date for emergencies.
• Never leave your food or drink unattended.
• When it’s time for the date to end, leave on your own. Avoid going straight home and drive to the store or another public place.
Know How to Talk to Me
Communication is important both to men and women – and it is an underrated aspect of seduction. Knowing what not to talk about with a particular person can be just as important as knowing what is fine to talk about. Here are the trends Plenty of Fish’s Seduction Survey identified for women. These will be useful when communicating with rebelrose1269. Women’s Top Ten Favorite Conversation Topics
1. Hopes and aspirations
2. Hobbies/interests in general
3. Music
4. Dreams
5. Romance
6. Friends
7. Travel
8. Vacations
9. Movies
10. Entertainment Women’s Top Ten Least Favorite Conversation Topics
1. Politics
2. Other dates
3. Past relationships
4. Science fiction
5. Religion
6. Celebrities
7. Science
8. Antiques
9. Money
10. History
My favorite conversation topics – in rebelrose1269’s own words!
1. job
2. family
3. where they like to be n 5 to 10 yrs
My least favorite conversation topics – in rebelrose1269’s own words!
1. ex's
2. money
3. sex
Know My Preferred Dating Attitude
rebelrose1269’s answer patterns suggest there should be a good response to someone whose attitude or temperament is downright effervescent. Bottom Line: Show off – even exude – the side of you that is high energy and even a little wild. rebelrose1269 wants to see your sense of humor, creativity and intelligence as well as a positive attitude throughout your words and actions.
Next, Plenty of Fish presents some customized, probing questions to help you get to break the ice with this type of person: • “What are your guilty pleasures in life?”
• “What is the oddest thing you have ever had a dream about?“
• “How would you dress up for a fancy date on the town, a costume party with friends or a role play adventure with a lover?”
Step 2: How to Date Me!
Building on the “approach” is the way you handle actual dates. Dates should be fun for both individuals and allow the couple to begin knowing each other on deeper level than what is possible with casual online dating. Dating is where you truly explore and assess the chemistry, friendship and overall compatibility between you. However, people’s dating preferences can vary widely. So, below are preferences to keep in mind for rebelrose1269!
Know How I Like to Pace a Date
To rebelrose1269, a first date should last One to two hours , and the date would ideally be Spontaneous – I like to set a time and place to meet and then see where the date goes from there.
Know My Favorite Dating Activities
Dinner is the classic date – and for good reason. It allows two people to focus on each other in a romantic environment, while satiating their palate and providing the opportunity to suggest ways two people can be mutually pleasured later. But, men and women both agree that some spots are more appropriate than others. The new Plenty of Fish Seduction Survey discovered what places are hot or not. The list below shows the top ten choices. Restaurants at the top part of the list are rated the most favorable, whereas those at the bottom are rated less favorable. Notice how those that are least preferred may reflect lower levels of romance to some people. Keep that in mind if you take rebelrose1269 to dinner!
Top Ten Restaurant Types for a Date
1. Casual dinner
2. Pub
3. Retro bar with live music
4. French cuisine
5. Ethnic
6. Pizza place
7. Western
8. Salad bar
9. Sushi bar
10. Family dinner
Of course, there are a host of dating activities besides the classic dinner and a movie. The Plenty of Fish Seduction Survey found which date picks for women are the best and the worst: Women’s Top Ten Date Picks
1. Restaurant
2. Taking a romantic walk
3. Park
4. Coffee shop
5. Live music
6. Comedy Club
7. Zoo
8. Bowling or Playing Pool
9. Amusement Park
10. Movies Women’s Top Ten Least Favorite Date Picks
1. High School Reunion, Work party or Wedding
2. Antique show
3. Shopping
4. Mixer
5. House Party
6. Cultural Event (opera, ballet, etc)
7. Dance Club
8. Sports activity
9. Sports event
10. Stay in and rent a movie
Favorite dating activities – in rebelrose1269’s own words!
1. dinner
2. movie
3. walking n a park
Least favorite dating activities – in rebelrose1269’s own words!
1. sitting at a bar
2. the conversations stop
3. guys come up with lame excuses to leave
Know My Expectations for Ending a Date
Assuming the first date goes well, rebelrose1269 may take it as far as a passionate make-out session. This can be wonderfully romantic, so don’t spoil it by trying to push for anything more at that point.
Dating Dos and Don’ts!
The Plenty of Fish Seduction Survey presented respondents with wide assortment of factors that can totally turn somebody on – as well as off. Both men and women agree on many of the elements that can make your efforts wildly successful or totally futile. In figuring out how to best woo a lady, consider avoiding the following turn-off’s, as well as incorporating the following turn-on’s. Furthermore, consider ways to maintain behaviors well beyond the preliminary stages of dating, as these factors will also help to maintain passion and intrigue in each other.
Women’s Top Ten Turn-Offs
1. Poor hygiene
2. Bad breath
3. Rude to staff
4. Poor manners
5. Complains a lot
6. Boring
7. Poor listener
8. Puts others down
9. Cheap skate
10. Someone who’s self-absorbed Women’s Top Ten Turn-Ons
1. Passionate
2. Romantic
3. Good listener
4. Good manners
5. Shows good eye contact
6. Easy going
7. Smiles a lot
8. Attentive to her needs
9. Well-groomed
10. Confident
Major TURN ONs – in rebelrose1269's own words!1. eyes
2. whats n their hearts
3. smiles
Major TURN OFFs – in rebelrose1269's own words! 1. lewdness
2. laziness
3. chewing tobacco
Step 3: How to Sexually Seduce Me!
Know My Sexual Personality
One’s overall sexual personality reflects two core meta-traits that experts traditionally refer to as Alpha and Beta. With respect to sexual motivations, Alpha concerns intimacy and affiliation, and Beta concerns power or dominance. This means that those scoring high on Alpha typically approach sex as a means to an end – such as strengthening an attachment or deepening intimacy with a lover. Those scoring high on Beta tend to regard sex as its own reward.
rebelrose1269 scored high on Alpha and high on Beta, so we call this profile a “Serpent.” These sensation-seekers are not necessarily sex fiends, but they can be somewhat open-minded and exploratory when it comes to sexual expression. For them, sex is often a transcendent experience through which they feel unparalleled pleasure that comes from all of the sensations of an intense emotional and physical connection with a partner, with many uncoiling their innermost sexual energy for a cosmic sexual experience. The dominance this type sometimes portrays in the bedroom is one meant for mutual pleasuring – for the greater good of the relationship and connection – than one of selfish gratification. Sexual pleasuring is a celebration of the relationship and amongst a union’s highest priorities.
In getting to know a “Serpent” better, Plenty of Fish would like to suggest some customized, probing inquiries to help you:
• “When it comes to ‘Tantric sex’, what thoughts come to mind?’”
• “Is sex best planned or left completely spontaneous…and why?”
• “How would you describe the difference between ‘sex’ and ‘making love’, if anything?”
• “Are there any sexual activities that couples should not try?”
• “Should a partner have sex even when they’re not in the mood?”
• “How would you describe the ultimate sensual sexual experience for you?”
Know My Romantic Fantasies
Plenty of Fish is about to reveal the latest in research on romantic fantasies – what men and women think about when they’re seducing themselves or a lover. Before we delve into those results, however, it’s interesting to note that, in general, research has found that the differences between the sexes when it comes to sexual fantasies aren’t too great. Both sexes enjoy fantasies involving threesomes (whatever the combination), using a video camera, current partners, reliving past experiences and oral sex. Naturally, however, research has also found gender differences when it comes to fantasy… Women’s fantasies are heavier on new lovemaking positions, sex in exotic places, being “forced “to have sex, bondage, being found absolutely irresistible, sex with a new lover and doing something “wicked.” Male fantasies tend to focus on sensual, nongenital (no penis or vagina) lovemaking, having sex in general, group sex, voyeurism and being aggressive or dominant during sex. That said, here’s what the Plenty of Fish Seduction Survey discovered about the realm of fantasies…
…On to the details
An important part of seducing many women is playing upon their senses and imagination in a way that sets the right emotional mood for physical intimacy and releasing inhibitions. The “right” mood varies, in general, between men and women, as well as amongst individuals. New research sponsored by Plenty of Fish has further discovered some predictable trends for women.
Generally speaking, most women like scripts – a sexy story line, with a good setting, context, and feelings, to get carried away with. Romantic fantasies in which they surrender themselves in a tender way to a mysterious lover or authority figure (firefighter/victim; doctor/nurse or passionate strangers who meet through destiny) are quite popular. On top of that, a number of women also like passionate fantasies that deal with risk-taking and/or impulsive behaviors, such as being with some sort of “bad boy” (think rock star, corrupt police officer, Robin Hood or Julius Caesar). Finally, on top of these two previous groups of themes, there are some women who really go for themes of dominance, forbidden relationships, or force (though this is not to say that they desire actually being violated in real life). Examples of this include principal/student, rich bitch/hired help, being a porn star, or being abducted or kidnapped. They love fantasies that involve their own attractiveness to a partner, the emotional context for such lust, and her role as her lover’s “toy.”
Bottom line: Overall, women’s romantic fantasies are more contextual, emotional, intimate and passive in nature, involving a great degree of emotional arousal, This is a reflection of the degree of emotional connection that she needs with a lover. So in wooing women who identify with these fantasy descriptors, men should make efforts to stimulate her beyond the physical, wooing her by setting the stage, creating a sensual space and taking the lead on co-creating a storyline that she will be replaying in her head and private moments for weeks to come. Furthermore, men need to realize the importance of patience in realizing her fantasies. For some women, romance and passion build gradually with time and trust. So don’t try to force or artificially accelerate the process to a pace that you may prefer.
Next, Plenty of Fish presents some customized, probing questions to help you explore romantic fantasies with rebelrose1269: • “Should a person ever reveal all of their sexual fantasies? Why or why not?”
• “Have you ever acted out a romantic fantasy… and was it all that you expected?”
• “What stimulates the fantasies that run through your head? Books? Movies?...”
• “How do you know when it’s safe to confess your romantic fantasies with a partner?”
• “What are some of the benefits of fantasy for an individual and a relationship?”
• “What are your thoughts around the claimed differences between males and females when it comes to sexual and romantic fantasies?”
Food for Thought! Plenty of Fish wants you to know about some idiosyncrasies related to “Romantic Fantasies” that the assessment identified in rebelrose1269.
Romantic fantasies I find especially unappealing
Cruel brothel boss & sex worker
Rich bitch & poor hired help
Teacher & student
Romantic fantasies I find especially appealing
Romantic fantasies I might discover I like with the right person
Therapist & patient
Ancient Egypt fantasy
Military
Know My Fantasy Locations
Another critical part of seduction is the physical setting. The “right” fantasy location can really help set the mood and make for an incredible and memorable intimate experience. The “right” fantasy setting varies between men and women, as well as among individuals. However, Plenty of Fish’s new research also reveals predictable trends about what women prefer. Generally speaking, most women like fantasy locations that are private, idealistic and exotic. These settings show a remarkable range, such as under a moonlit sky, near or in waterfalls, secluded picnics, hot tubs, bed & breakfasts, castles, forests, lighthouses, and famous historical landmarks (e.g., Eiffel Tower). On that top of this, a number of women also like fantasy locations that really kick adrenaline into high gear. These are locations that speak to the sensation-seeking side of women – camping, fields, amusement parks, backstage at concerts or Hollywood movie sets, and even images of space and the heavens. Finally, on top of these two previous groups of themes, there are some women who really go for themes of forbidden locations that tap into the idea of lost innocence. Examples of this include parked cars, office romances, childhood playgrounds, haunted houses or high schools.
Bottom line: When it comes to fantasy settings, women tend to be most concerned with privacy and discretion with a lover – the sharing of intimate or exhilarating experiences that make for great secrets and memories. Men should therefore remember that a woman appreciates settings that help show her and make her feel that she’s the sole object of his attention and desire and that acts of intimacy are special.
Next, Plenty of Fish presents some customized, probing questions to help you explore romantic fantasies with rebelrose1269:
• “Should couples take photographs (intimate or not) when they’re living out a romantic fantasy in an exotic place… or should they forego cameras, only taking away memories of the experience so that the details remain forever private between the two lovers?”
• “Do you think a couple can effectively recreate an exotic, fantasy setting in the privacy of their own home, or do you think it’s just not the same as going to that actual setting? Can some be done more easily than others?”
• “You’re sharing a moment of passion in a secluded, romantic spot when all of a sudden a stranger appears! Would you tend to find that situation horrifying, hilarious, embarrassing or a complete turn-on?”
Food for Thought! Plenty of Fish wants you to know about some idiosyncrasies related to “Fantasy Locations” that the assessment identified in rebelrose1269.
Fantasy locations I find especially unappealing
Abduction/kidnapping
Foreigner
Fantasy locations I find especially appealing
Fantasy locations I might discover I like with the right person
Dancing club
Scented candles
Military
Know My Sexual Fantasies
Ultimately, seduction leads to physical intimacy. And just as people prefer certain moods and settings, men and women also prefer particular types of sex play. The new research sponsored by Plenty of Fish discovered some interesting trends for what forms of sex play appeal most to women. Generally speaking, most women like sensual activities that allow them to play with their partners. This includes a strip tease, role play, tickling and light biting, and exhibitionism (getting intimate in public settings). On that top of this, a number of women also like sex play that gets a little on the wild side – things like getting or playing with body piercings, bondage with some spanking or hot wax for added stimulation, wearing stockings and hosiery, and posing for nude photographs or videotaping intimate encounters. Finally, on top of these two previous groups of activities, there are some women who really go for more uninhibited or hardcore types of play. Examples of this include exotic shoes or boots, using rubber or latex, pinching, harder spankings and other types of general B&D/S&M play.
Bottom line: When it comes to sexual preferences, women tend to like sex play that fosters intimacy and a sense of “surrender” to a partner. They also like to know that they are deeply desired. Therefore, a man should give his undivided attention to his partner and ensure an atmosphere of mutual trust so his partner feels free and safe to be uninhibited sexually. He should also explore different types of touch with her, tapping into all of her senses, and respectfully testing her boundaries as far as sexual enhancements and expression go. Next, Plenty of Fish presents some customized, probing questions to help you explore sexual fantasies with rebelrose1269:
• “What are your most favorite types of foreplay…and why?”
• “Have most of your sexual preferences come from your own imagination, from sex play with a previous partner, or have they been inspired from what you’ve seen in books, TV, or the movies?“
• “Where are your top three hot spots and how do you like them stimulated?”
Food for Thought! Plenty of Fish wants you to know about some idiosyncrasies related to “Sexual Fantasies” that the assessment identified in rebelrose1269.
Sex play I find especially unappealing
Rubber/ Latex fetishism
Leather fetishism
Fur fetishism / Doraphilia
Sex play I find especially Appealing
Sex play I might discover I like with the right person
Cross-dressing
Body piercing
Spanking/ paddling
