Music and your love life
I guess everybody has had a few songs that would bring about memories of how things used to be. I find most of the moments that i wish to remember tied up to certain songs. some songs even have the smell of freshly cut grass attatched to it! There was a time when i was too young to know, but i was listening to a particular song (dont ask me what it was, because even i forget some things...) and i was bawling. Moms looked at me and said, boy, some girl is gonna break your heart. I dont know if that was a prediction of what was to come. A trusted friend has told me that everyone has had their heart broken at one time (this author still expresses doubt), but does music even tie in those events in your life? I am curious, i mean we even chose a wedding song to dance to, does any one have certain songs that ties sad times? Me? well i can honestly say i've just started enjoying the temptations singing "silent night" because for a long time it was associated with the beasely woman, it was the first song that was on the radio that night after i was deemed too nice... but anyways, if youre reading this, and care to share some music tied to some of your most loved love ones feel free to comment. Just to give me an idea of what you guys liked when you were in love. I'll give a few examples..
when i was w/tracee= miki howard- first 3 songs on that cd kinda sums up the whole relationship. Now its "Just to see her" by that light skinned dude.
Mariya thomas= uh yall are gonna laugh, but Al B Sure- If im not your lover
Pamela Emmie Maria VanEisjden= sex you up by them boys
Deetra (the Detestful)= the boys- dial my heart.
Even Diana Benjamin had a song = I need you tonight by INXS
Whenever i hear those songs,.. i think of these ppl, why?!! Sad thing is that most of these ladies would never know that these songs had such an effect on me. Footsteps in the dark will always remind me of a warm summer night over felicia's house. I think Ray Parker Jr had wrote a song saying that a good romance and a love song goes hand in hand. But i forget, we have lost that kind of romance. That song comes on the radio and instantly you hafta run to the phone and call that special one to say,.. hey our song is on,. The guy blushes and gets that twinkle in his eye. man i miss romance,..
