This was posted as an Mumm Home wrecker
Ok I am self analyzing myself...I have been divorced 4 years after a 17year relationship. I dated a married man for about a year and a half,then had a live in relationship with a married man who was divorcing,was seeing another married man about a year ago which I recently started seeing again. What in the hell is my attraction to married men?Is it you always want what you can't have? Or do I not like commitment?
One of the reply s:
sounds to me like after a 17 year relationship going south that you might see married men as "safe." They can never truly commit to you thus you can't a have a real relationship with them! Therefore in your mind you can't get hurt again!
BTW... You are not a home wrecker, you are just someone who is afraid of getting hurt once again! It's totally understandable!!
So after reading this it hit home about all the relationships I have been in . In the past 7 yrs not only dating married men ( Nothing I'm proud of by far) but being the first one to bail or make sure the relationship didn't work. It took one of my good friends to stay it out loud for me that I'm afraid of ending up alone . So I'm saying it " I'm afraid of ending up alone"
