Read this recently and it seems like a good way to look at things.
The only way you can make your life better is to take your life back, to take back what you have given over to others, release them from responsibility and claim it for yourself.
The past is over. It is a pile of ashes at your feet. But this moment, right now, is here and it is full of power. And in this moment if you will but release the old hurt and blame the old regrets and guilt, if you will but release all that you can then claim your life and make anything and everything of it that you wish.
Imagine. You own your life. You are fully and completely responsible for it. From this moment, forward no one else owns you. It does not matter what happened yesterday. Right now you own your life. No one is to blame for what happened before because it is not important. There is no power in the past. All of the power is right now right here and you own it all.
