Mistress is different in my eyes than most Dom/me because She knows She is human. She takes the time to learn, She doesnít have the ďI know it allĒ attitude. She is fairly new to the BDSM lifestyle, and isnít above learning or asking for guidance. She built a communication bridge with me; She didnít expect me to be 100% open with Her from day one. She doesnít demand respect She commands it, She is a lady in all aspects and expects Her submissive to act accordingly. To me She is more than just my Domme; She is my best friend, my girlfriend, my mentor, my rock at times, my hero, and my role model. I can hear Her reaction to my last statement about Her ďdonít put me on a pedestal baby girlĒ, and I donít; I know She is human and has faults like everyone else. But I do hold the up most respect for Her. I know that if I have any kind of problem or just need someone to talk to that I can go to Her with out Her judging or criticizing, She listens and gives advice on how to fix the problem and most problems She helps me through them.
When I first moved in with Her I was a cutter. I would cut to numb the emotional pain and stress with physical pain. She took me by the hand and has held it working with me to over come my cutting. Itís been eight months since I last cut, and I have Her to thank for it. Our relationship is deeper than a physical or sexual attraction like most D/s relationships are, its spiritual, emotional, and mental as well. She knows me better than anyone, with a glance She can tell if Iím upset or that there is something wrong with out me saying a word. With just a glance She sees into my soul, She has brought me from a closed up, scared, lonely, miserable, un-trusting girl to being a happy, courageous, loving, strong, open, emotion showing lady.