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God how it has sucked being away from fubar!  I miss the friends Imade and the talks we shared.  I dont know when or how but I'll be back again soon...

Having left my husband, moved houses and taken on a full time pklus job I've been going thru it.

 

We are still alive, the kids are thriving and I'm not dead yet so I guess the saga continues...

...I just wanted to let everyone know that I am indeed still alive and kicking, though right now it feels like I'm getting kicked...the end of last year was pretty rough, but things are looking up! Once the kids go back to school maybe I can actually find time to log in more than once a month! I hope everyone had a great holiday season. Keep smiling Anjeleyes
As most of you know I am back from California. Yet still I cant seem to get online! No computer issues just not enough time in my day!! My visit went wonderfully! I saw all my family and almost all my friends. I partied and laughed and just relaxed for a change!! anyway I just wanted to put up a quick note so everyone knows I'm thinking of them. Have a great night and I'll try to be on soon. BIG love Anjeleyes
Well the time has finally come for me to go home...its only for a visit, but home is home...two wonderful weeks in my home town and I cant wait!! I'll be seeing my mom, my best friend and a bunch of other people. ITs going to be two fun but long weeks! Anyway if you send me a message or gift or you leave me a comment I promise to get back to you as soon as I can-I dont know how often I wll get online while I am in California but I'll be back on the 20th, so I will definetly get back to everyone then. Have fun, I'll miss you all!! Anjel
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Through a Rapist's Eyes (No Joke) When this was sent to me, I was told to forward it to my lady friends. I forwarded it to most everyone in my address book. My men friends have female friends and this information is too important to miss someone. Please pass it along. A group of rapists and date rapists in prison were interviewed on what they look for in a potential victim and here are some interesting facts : 1) The first thing men look for in a potential victim is hairstyle . They are most likely to go after a woman with a ponytail, bun, braid or other hairstyle that can easily be grabbed . They are also likely to go after a woman with long hair. Women with short hair are not common targets. 2) The second thing men look for is clothing. They will look for women who's clothing is easy to remove quickly. Many of them carry scissors around specifically to cut clothing. 3) They also look for women on their cell phone, searching through their purse or doing other activities while walking because they are off guard and can be easily overpowered. 4) Men are most likely to attack & rape in the early morning, between 5:00 a.m. And 8:30 a.m. 5) The number one place women are abducted from/attacked is grocery store parking lots. Number two is office parking lots/garages. Number three is public restrooms . 6) The thing about these men is that they are looking to grab a woman and quickly move her to another location where they don't have to worry about getting caught. 7) Only 2% said they carried weapons because rape carries a 3-5 year sentence but rape with a weapon is 15-20 years. 8) If you put up any kind of a fight at all, they get discouraged because it only takes a minute or two for them to realize that going after you isn't worth it because it will be time-consuming 9) These men said they would not pick on women who have umbrellas , or other similar objects that can be used from a distance, in their hands. Keys are not a deterrent because you have to get really close to the attacker to use them as a weapon. So, the idea is to convince these guys you're not worth it. 10) Several defense mechanisms he taught us are: If someone is following behind you on a street or in a garage or with you in an elevator or stairwell, look them in the face and ask them a question, like what time is it, or make general small talk: "I can't believe it is so cold out here", "we're in for a bad winter." Now you've seen their face and could identify them in a line-up; you lose appeal as a target. 11) If someone is coming toward you, hold out your hands in front of you and yell STOP or STAY BACK ! Most of the rapists this man talked to said they'd leave a woman alone if she yelled or showed that she would not be afraid to fight back. Again, they are looking for an EASY target. 12) If you carry pepper spray (this instructor was a huge advocate of it and carries it with him wherever he goes,) yell I HAVE PEPPER Spray and holding it out will be a deterrent. 13 ) If someone grabs you, you can't beat them with strength but you can by outsmarting them. If you are grabbed around the waist from behind, pinch the attacker either under the arm (between the elbow and armpit) OR in the upper inner thigh VERY VERY HARD . One woman in a class this guy taught told him she used the underarm pinch on a guy who was trying to date rape her and was so upset she broke through the skin and tore out muscle strands - the guy needed stitches. Try pinching yourself in those places as hard as you can stand it; it hurts 14) After the initial hit, always GO for the GROIN . I know from a particularly unfortunate experience that if you slap a guy's parts it is extremely painful. You might think that you'll anger the guy and make him want to hurt you more, but the thing these rapists told our instructor is that they want a woman who will not cause a lot of trouble. Start causing trouble, and he's out of there. 15) When the guy puts his hands up to you , grab his first two fingers and bend them back as far as possible with as much pressure pushing down on them as possible. The instructor did it to me without using much pressure, and I ended up on my knees and both knuckles cracked audibly. 16) Of course the things we always hear still apply. Always be aware of your surroundings, take someone with you if you can and if you see any odd behavior, don't dismiss it, go with your instincts!!! They are God-given instincts. You may feel a little silly at the time, but you'd feel much worse if the guy really was trouble PLEASE READ THEN FORWARD THIS TO EVERY WOMAN YOU KNOW, IT'S SIMPLE STUFF BUT IT COULD SAVE HER LIFE. And ladies, just because you live in a small town or rural area, this doesn't always mean you are safe.

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Alright I think I have my brother hooked on CT...go show him some cherry love... Lrd_Theron

@ CherryTAP And yes our visit is going well, if it wasnt I would be spending more time on here, lol!!

...My phone died yesterday and I lost EVERYONES phone numbers...if I had your number (or you have mine) please send me a PM with your number (or just give me a call!)...
I am sorry I havent been on. Real world stuff is piling up on me...out of state company coming this week and I still have a ton of stuff to do before they get here. I miss chatting with my friends darn it!! lol, such is life. anyway I'll be back again as soon as I can. In the mean time be safe and have fun! brightest blessings anjel
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