A magic tongue is one thing, but what you do with your hands can mean the difference between good oral sex and fantastic oral sex.
Master these techniques and she'll love you forever...
The classic
Separate the vaginal lips with your fingers, find the clitoris and lick around the edges, slowly and gently. Then relax your tongue and wiggle it side to side and up and down over the clitoris and/or clitoral hood (depending on how sensitive she is).
On orgasm, press your flat tongue against the clitoral head, continuing to lick, or simply let her push against you. Don’t remove your tongue until she says so - women’s orgasms last much longer than yours!
The ice-cream
Make your tongue flat and wide, like you’re licking an ice-cream, and start with long, slow, wet licks on the inner lips. Move from this into a swishing motion - imagine you’re catching the drips off an ice-cream. As your tongue swishes randomly, you’re now teasing the edges of the clitoris.
Next, alternate long, flat, ice-cream licks on or around the clitoris with firm, short, fast licks using a tensed tongue. (If the clitoris shrinks or she pulls away, you’re being too rough.) Alternate the techniques, then settle on the one she seems to like the best, continuing it through to orgasm.
The zig-zag
This technique stops you over-stimulating one area and making the clitoris over-sensitive. The zig-zag involves alternating vertical strokes of the tongue on the bottom of the clitoris with horizontal strokes across the whole of it.
Horizontal strokes are usually more pleasurable, so do about seven of those to one vertical. Once she’s highly aroused, add in some diagonal licks. Tilt your head to the side (your ear to her thigh) and, using the side of your tongue, start from a low corner point and finish by brushing up against the clitoral head.
Hands on
Let your finger follow behind your tongue so she has a contrast of sensation (soft tongue, firm fingers) or put a finger in her mouth. She’ll either give it ‘mini’ fellatio or suck in the way she wants you to lick her.
Insert a finger inside her vagina and thrust it in and out; reach up and use both hands to play with her breasts. If she likes anal stimulation, try simultaneously putting your thumb inside her anus, a finger into her vagina, and your mouth on her clitoris.
