I am looking for a woman to compliment my strange, quirky, and sometimes neurotic behavior. I am not looking for my mother. I’m not looking to save or parent someone. Applicants should be stable, have a sense of direction, compassion, and passion. She should have a sense of self and love the person she has become. Sense of humor is very important as I laugh often and love to do so. I have a stressful job as a paramedic therefore tolerance to my schedule is a must. Make no mistake; I am looking for a long term relationship, but to start casually. Neatness, cleanliness, and pride of appearance are important. Not A trophy…. but MY trophy. That is to say, looks are not as important to me as personality and integrity, as looks fade and change with time. Attraction is required however. I want a girl that I can worship, spoil, talk in great length to, and race home to be near. Listen to “Short Skirt, Long Jacket” by Cake, it’s a pretty good summation of what I desire.

I am a Paramedic, I know that people aren’t defined by their careers, but a lot can be said by saying it. I am a type A-B personality. I take charge and run my world in my job; I have a hard time relinquishing control, but would love to do so. I can be shy at first but once over the initial “butterflies” you will probably beg me to shut the hell up. I grew up in a house that didn’t show emotion but somehow learned to be compassionate. I cry at sappy movies and sing along to the radio. I can be messy, or should I say unorganized, but not dirty. I take pride in my dress and but hate to iron. I am a big kid at heart, and sometimes a kid in every other way. I like my toys and have been known to buy myself stupid stuff on impulse. (Have you been to the toy store lately? holy crap, they didn’t make cool stuff like that when I was a kid).