i am a submissive...not a switch not a top i dont flip flop. i'v been in lifestyle for 6 years i know how to behave in public and at home..i wasnt "born" a submissive events and relationships throughout my life have shaped how i do things im passive by nature and love to please however . i have a mind and opinions and most of all feelings, i am obedient once i'v submitted . i give Respect where its Earned and Courtesy in any other instance. i am loyal loving caring and rarely forget what One likes or expects i am not in to poly arrangements or cybering. texting and yim is fine at first but please be honest with Yourself and me on what You are looking for and Your expectations of any relationship You are seeking with me. i am looking for a caring patient loving loyal content honest accountable attentive Daddy Dom that is NOT married or otherwise attached and IS local and at least active. i am so tired of games and falseness it would be a nice change of pace to find someone who has the ability to Know what He wants and is upfront about it from the start. i am a person that is easily attached and would love someone to Want my full attention as it should be and willing to give me theirs aswell if none of the above doesn't sound like You please move on there are plenty out there that are looking to just be used i however am seeking more ty ~cat My Ideal Person an attentive Daddy Dom i doubt there's One out there. i'm not looking for play time( not that i don't enjoy playtime ) or something casual so please don't waste my time nor Yours. im not looking for a switch or bi or semi bi either nor am i seeking online or long distance....
by the way barking orders at me to add You on yahoo or anywhere else or ordering me with in the first few messages will not get You very far and it does not make You a better Dominant it makes You domineering. it does not mean that im disobedient to not follow orders after a 10 min conversation it means im not the typical online subbie hiding in a corner somewhere whimpering that she wants a Master and a lap.
im really starting to see the One i seek just isnt here. i do not wish to relocate to another state ... as i said i need some one attentive if that is not You please don't waste my time i know people have busy lives but if Your serious Youl set aside some time for the one Your pursuing.it amazes me the amount of ones claiming single but are only available to talk durring the week while at work ...just a little odd no?do you really think these patterns aren't noticeable? i can assure You they are..... if i can manage to set time aside for U where U have my undivided attention and i make my self available at anytime day night or weekend i would think a grown single male Dom could do the same....and please if Your going to make arrangements to meet follow through or don't waste my time and energy. if arrangements are made for a public meet it will remain a public meet unless agreed upon prior. and if the plans need changed at least have the courtesy to let me know instead of stopped communication. for being supposed Dominates some really have no sense of common courtesy let alone any amount of respect witch really should be a fundamental in the lifestyle if your not dependable for a simple meet how dependable of a Dominate can You be i mean really have You thought about this at all?
there is something to be said for being responsible im not about to place my life and safety in the hands of someone that has no amount of responsibility in the simple matters such as these. if this in anyway hurts Ur Domliness sense of so called pride i am not the one U seek. to take someone in Ur hands be responsible for their needs wants desires emotional well being and best decisions regarding their lives it stands to reason that YOU should be upstanding mature responsible honorable truthful and have some integrity if You dont posses these qualities how can a sub be expected to put her entire trust in U to care for her needs and make her the best she can be? trust is built over time submission isnt just a given not to mention subs are not the only ones that should be worthy to be owned the Dom should be worthy to Own them.( and i haven't even mentioned having any faith that these types would have any more sense in sexual aspects of the relationship do u really think anyone with an ounce of common sense would place their bodies in ur care to bind them in rope and trust that they will be handled in any sort of a safe manner??)