ok, why is it when you think you found the perfect man someone or something ALWAYS happens....I mean please people...this is odd.I come across a man whom i am very attracted to and he is everything one could ask for.YET i am finding many things i DO NOT like and yet i want to commit to him.He loves me & my kids so he says and wants to spend all his time with me & them YET..there seems to be a BLACK CLOUD following & i hate it..how do i confront him on theses issues (other women he talks to ect)..or do i leave it alone..I am NOT a jealous person, YET..what is mine is NOT to be shared...PLEASE help..what do i do? I just dont think he needs to be in contact with them if we are together, NOR be on any web sites...UNLESS we are in in together as a couple...dont you all agree...or am i living in a dream land???