Welcome to my newest blog..it is based upon my opinion and I have chosen to share it with you all.
Married and Online
In my not so humble opinion I firmly believe married people in general have no place on a chat site geared toward promiscuity. This is of course my opinion and I am entitled to it as you are entitled to your own.
I absolutely despise the use of the term "happily married" especially in conjunction with a page that contains less than proper photos. I think peoples ideas of happy are their own, but I do not believe a happily married person would be seeking out a playmate(s) online if they were so happy.
I realize this blog will garner me no fans as most of the people online I do talk to are married. I am not here to air others laundry just merely state my opinion. I feel that married people should not complicate a bad situation with another bad situation. Some people prefer to have their fantasies and I do not. I won't criticize them for it...but I don't personally want it for myself. I don't like to play online with people as is..especially if those people have a spouse.
I am estranged from my husband, he left and for reasons that seem ridiculous to me and others I am still officially married, however we don't reside together and he is currently in some sort of relationship. Its a technicality one that makes me seem hypocritical. I am okay with that.
Single is a funny term. I think if you are not in a relationship you are single. If you don't live with someone you have sexual relations with, you are single. If you are not currently living with your spouse whether you have sex with them or not, you may be single. Therefore I am single. As open minded as I like to believe myself to be, I refuse to accept married people with the status "happily married" online. It isn't truthful, so I recommend they put "married" or "unhappily married" or even "happy with my marriage as it is" its obviously all based on the individuals perspectives. And I have vented enough.
I welcome any comments you may have on this subject