So you meet a guy/girl and in the begining are happy and fine. You fall deeply in love with them and then to the next stage and get married.
The marriage seems wonderful, at first, and you have no second thoughts about it. Then you one day realize maybe you were not ready for it and take a look back on all the steps before the actual marriage. You start to realize it was more of the other persons idea then yours and you just got caught up in the excitement. The excitement of being with someone you love for the rest of your life, excitement of spending days with that person because you really do love them, or so you think. One day you are sitting there and having second thoughts. You no longer know if you love this person or if you don't.
Other things begin to factor in. You don't talk as often and when you do it is short or very few words. They insist they could not live without you and you tell them the same but deep down you have this feeling that things are not the same. That its not what you wanted. It's not what you expected.
So what do you do? You don't want to hurt this person because you really do love them but more and more you are thinking about a divorce. How do you explain to the one you love that you dont want to be with them no more??
I know there is no book on life or marriage but what do you do? Do you hide the feelings and hope they go away or do you tell the person and hope they understand?
