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When it comes to a conflict in your relationship, if there is a problem fix it. Don't let something you can't agree on cause a stalemate. Better yet, come up with a solution you can both agree on. Each day that passes by that NOTHING was done about it is another day gone by, another moment that that person is angry with you. Another day that the person feels heartbroken, abandoned, not appreciated and unloved. You might as well give that other person permission to turn their back on you. Permission to let them cheat. The last thing we want to hear is "Where do we go wrong?", or "Why did that person cheat on me?". You know why. It's because of pride, foolishness, and sheer stupidity. Hold on to your convictions if you must, but they better be valid. If you truly love someone, you wouldn't let one day, much less one hour go by that your mate is pissed off at you. EVER. A person that has bluntness, sassiness, and flair is a person who has a great deal of life and passion flowing through their veins.That my friend is someone you want to hold on to for many reasons. A person who let their partner stay pissed at them for days, months, or even years at them is a fool. Especially if that partner has compromised, backed down, and tried to make it work with little to no results. Here are some rules to live by:
1. Never apologize for something you intend to do again. Your efforts will mean nothing and leave room to wonder if you mean it when you apologize for the same thing or anything else. In short, don't apologize unless you mean it.
2. Happy wife, happy life. Bottom line, if she isn't happy, you're not going to be either.
3. If she's someone you can't live without, do NOT treat her like you can.
4. If you messed up, admit it, then incorporate damage control and be quick about it. We HATE waiting for either one.
5. Never enter a relationship if you have debts to pay, whether it be your fault or someone else's. The new person in your life doesn't want to be dragged down with you. If the new person came into it with NO debt, most likely that person doesn't want to be stuck with yours.
