ALPART's blog: "Loving each moment of every day is the most positive approach . "

We are only human and not perfect by any means, we can not achieve perfection nor be expected to ever be perfect in life, only God is perfect ! Yet , the myth still remains, that no matter how much we try to be good & caring, loving & kind, compassionate, knowledge & wise this does not make you perfect.
The perfection, something many strive for but none truly ever reach, is because the more we work to be perfect the more we seem to find fault in ourselves. The mere thought that we can ultimately achieve some form of perfection, is nothing more than an inflated ego with great delusional abilities. There is no man, woman or child on this earth, who can achieve perfection and to try is just a big waste of time and energy. Inevitably, we can still achieve & strive for great and miraculous things for ourselves, but we will have ultimately made many mistakes involved in the process. The mistakes and faults we make, are what shapes us into who and what we are, for through them, we learn and grow spiritually and find our inner strengths and courage. I believe more often-then-not, many are perfectionists out of their fear of failure or some kind of unnecessary & unwarranted desire to be accepted simply by peer pressure. Many over-achievers and perfectionist in life are driven, encouraged & motivated by the dreams and expectations of their parents, significant other and peers. They live their lives for others & they haven't begun to realize, that the only dreams and expectations they need to worry about is their own. God has given & instilled in each & every one of us, the creative & unique talents & priceless gifts and a meaningful more purposeful use for them. We should be more concerned what God wants from us and set our goals by what we know, we can truly achieve. To set ourselves up by too low or too high a goal for our abilities, is only setting us up for either failure or wasting these glorious & special talents and gifts God has given us. Through God, we can achieve most anything that is within the will of God. For God knows, we are not perfect by any means and that we can not achieve perfection by any measure on our own. So why then, do we put so such attention & importance on ourselves or others being perfect, if God doesn't expect it out of any of his children? God only expects us to try, to do & give our very best and to do it for His glory. So give up on being perfect and start to embrace the idea of doing the very best you can, because you are worth it and remember, with GOD everything in life is possible .

Loving each moment of every day is a magnificent, wonderful & most
positive approach and is the perfect formula to get you through life's greatest
challenges & struggles and although few are "truly" happy all of the time,
those who make the greatest efforts reap the greatest rewards. Remain grateful
to God for his glorious & wondrous being, for your life, for others,
humanity & that which surrounds you. Where you want to be in life comes from
a sixth sense of knowing yourself & becoming "oneness" with your Creator. Be
assured that their is a greater more splendid plan for your existence &
until you finally come to understand that which is "you," have an open heart for
the necessary change & search your "true" and "meaning" purpose throughout
your lifetime. Share love daily with the people that surround you, even if these
friends seem to believe in you less or don't share the same support of you as
much as you do of them. Always try to be a beacon and share "your" light &
inspiration to others by uplifting their spirits, for a few encouraging words
where needed & understanding goes a long, long way. Never respond in anger
or bitterness to the judgements, hate or negativity from others, rather embrace
it and offer "love" as a solution for their troubled heart & mind. Be the
"bigger" person when dealing with misunderstandings & arguments and
"give-in" with patience & peaceful means, rather then an inflated "ego" You
have the ability to show the world what differences you can add to it, while
making it a better place for others & mankind. Spread peace, love, hope
& joy throughout your lifetime & around the world! Sending you my
continued blessings of peace and love to fill your every waking hour . With each
new morning when we awake, we are given important choices to make that will set
our mood for the rest of the day, it sets all that we will experience and all
that we will encounter & feel and how it will play-out. The choices are
...for you "alone" to make. We can obviously choose to wake-up worried about
everything around us, from our relationships, the reality of pending bills &
rent, our careers & working efforts and the needless drama that fills our
daily lives, or we can make the conscientious effort to shift our energy and
perception and take a more constructive attitude of positiveness &
more-balanced attitude of optimism and count our blessings for all that we have
been granted. Feelings of gratitude is the fastest way to move progressively
forward from where we are to exactly where we want to be in life. Gratitude
holds a significant amount of power, to shift all our energy to one of
possibility. Gratitude holds the key to unlocking the future and all that is
"good" in life. Life is not always fair and you may face challenges, but it
really makes no difference. Learn to continue to stay grateful for no matter
what your "temporary" set-back may be, even the worst of news, no matter how
sad, learn to let it go and return to gratitude. Consciously bring yourself back
into a state of gratitude by remembering all you have to be grateful for and
ultimately blessed with. Practicing this simple lesson will give you a better
knowledge, wisdom and a method of understanding and becoming in "oneness" with
others, mankind & the Universe. Remember to focus in on whatever you are
most grateful for. Whatever your blessings, focus in on it and feel the joy that
fills your every pore. Feel grateful for everything you have been blessed &
rewarded with and go with the flow of your life, be grateful for all of life, be
thankful you are alive. Its that simple! May God bless you with an abundance of
good health, hope, joy and an "inner" peace & love all the days of your
life.