Real talk (how to love a black man)
My girl sent me this, thought I would share it!! Guess I'm not doing all this, that's why I'm alone!! lol
The first thing you must understand there is no easy way to love a black man.You have got to figure him out.
Learn what he is about and know he is someone you can not live without.
Then kill him with kindness, shower him with sweetness but never let him mistake your kindness for weakness.
It is hard for him to give himself to you so be appreciative of the little things he tries to do.
Let him know he can confide in you and in return he will not have to hide things from you. So be supportive , be his friend not his foe .When he makes a mistake do not say I told you so.
Be understanding not demanding.
Let him unwind, he faces a world of rain.
So be his sunshine.
Do not get to cozy in the comfort zone, you will take him for granted and end up alone.
Keep love exciting and new, go the extra mile. Keep finding new ways to make him smile.
Remember to be sexy because without a doubt , he wants to be proud when he takes you out.
Do not let yourself go. Do not forget about you.
Love yourself and he will love you too. Do not smother the man, let him breathe.
The tighter you hold on the faster he will leave .And when you love him, love him all the way down. Do not be afraid to explore him pound for pound.
If you do not give him what he needs to feel, I guarantee that someone else will. Be honest, be patient and demand respect.
And a wonderful black man is what you will get .Show him your pride, stand by his side.
Let God be your guide and love will abide
