often I wonder, whenever i hear my friends talk about love,just how many of them has had a relationship completely void of pain where love was proclaimed as the basis of the relationship.i searched my own life as to date and yet to find a single relationship where I could say honestly that I was completely happy throughout the entire relationship.Why then do i wonder that it is we so actively seek relationships that we know we are to suffer for the company of another. Is it possible that this is the way it is supposed to be?I think not.could it be that love is nothing more than an illusion that we create for ourselfs to feel wanted and accepted,perhaps but unlikely.Is it more likely that the affection is real but we create the infliction of pain to be pitied for,perhaps.Will anyone care why we endure the pain for the pleasure,no!We only know that the pleasure,however so little,is worth the pain we recieve no matter how great! To some degree.then we divorce only to begin the process all over again.Where then can we find the answer to this phenominom?Search inside yourself because the answer is as unique to each person as our smile.Just look at yourself in the mirror and ask"why must love hurt"?
