Dre's blog: "Love & relationships on FU"

The Year of 2014, has come to end, for me thank god. I'm writing this blog to get some things off my chest. First of all want to apologize to anyone that I have offended or sound creepy that I do apologize for that behavior. Second for anyone who I pissed off and deserve that shit! For me a job well done. The years I have been on this site, I try to be open and honest and show respect to others, even at times people on this site don't always do the same, I tried to look over it, cause quite frankly I got other important things to do, instead of wasting my time pleasing you. As 2015 rolls around I figure it time I make changes on the way I conduct myself on here. For now I will be true and loyal to my true friends on here, and you know who you are, rest of you muthafuckers, well I get to you when I get to you. One thing I cant stand you're being dishonest to me or trying to be fake ass bitch. I will not stand for that bullshit ever. Yes my personality is going change, it seems like being a nice guy is loser mentality and quite frankly fuck it, there is no honest or sincerely anymore in this world it seems like. The years I have been on here, I seen people use people on here to get what they want, and led people on for their benefit. Someone told me it's like high school, truthfully it's worse. You got some women leading dudes on, get what they want and you got dudes on here acting like they own some of these women, and tell you truth they wouldn't give a minute of their day with you. Oh god forbid you talk to some these women on a friendly basics, some of these dudes act like you trying hit on their wives and shit, and whole time they don't give two fucks about you. I don't want to say all my time has been negative experience, I have met some great people and I'm honor to call them my friends. Some of these people they need help, and maybe mental stay in hospital might go long way too, but that's my opinion. I will for now on just be open and honest and no more trying to get with next someone, if it do happens then it happens. I'm not going stop fate at all. I just want to be treated with respect and honestly. You hate me, so be it, I came in this world with out you, I'm pretty sure I'm going leave it without you. All I'm here for conversation to kill time, and be a true friend to ones that are true to me. I may lose some friends, I don't really care anyway, Way I look at it you really was never my friend from get go, I was just add on as body count so you can be popular on this site that's all. Well that's my vent for 2014, for those who are reasonable grownups on here, I wish you a very Happy New Year and blessed one at that. For rest of y'all well I'm sure you can figure it out. I tell you myself GO FUCK YOURSELVES! Peace.

I'm going write this, cause today I learn valuable lesson. You see when I was younger I always thought that being with coolest people would get you far in social circles, and reality is I didn't know what true friendship really was. I was talking to old friend today about my ex, and she was telling me how her life took solid nose dive and really had no desire to better herself in life. As I listen to what was going with her, I remember all shit she put me through, and tell you truth I was down and out two years ago, I thought I lost everything and I had crawl my way back. Now, I made little progress in life, I realize what kind of stupid asshole I really was. I was trying to cool for all wrong reasons and I got totally used by her after those years I was with her. When going got tough she was really no help or no where around. That's why when I speak about fake ass people, I know what they are about cause I seen this first hand. Do I hate her? No I can't I can forgive but I can't forget what I went though. That's why I speak sometimes like a asshole cause I don't want live that same shit again. So I really realize I met a lot of beautiful people here on this site, and I also met some fake ass mutha fuckers on here too. I could easily hate them too! But why waste the engery on that. Just learn your mistakes and move on, know that this people you wouldn't invite to coach roach show. So on this blog I do want apologize to anyone I offended and especially to women if I can on too strong, please forgive me for my brash behavior. I'm not perfect and I'm still learning and I will always will still be learning until they throw dirt on me. I can only be myself and I can't be who you want me to be. I made a lot of stupid mistakes in my past and present, and I just want you to know that anything I said was to build rapport and friendship with people on this site. I'm not just learning what true friends are and what fake friends are. I understand if not your cup of tea but, I'm going be me, and if you can't except that then fuck you! But I will no more try to be something that I'm not. I'm going be Andre and that's way it's going be. If want Andre as your friend cool, if not then move out way so person that is right can. I realize I did friendship thing the wrong way, now in my later years I will try to best friend person can have regardless if they cool or not. You need friends that will ride with you good or bad. Money can buy u friends but when that shit is gone, so are they. True one like your ass no matter what. I hope understand this blog, and I know some asshole going make light of it, and I don't care. I had something on mind that I wanted to say long fuckin time. Thanks for your time and good reading. This will be last of my blogs I guess lol

The last time I did a blog, was about fu marriages and relationships and some of you got the idea and some didn't. That's ok. This time I want go in more personal way of what I have experience and seen on Fubar. Don't get me wrong it's has its faults and it also has its positives. When I make friends with someone here, I give them the respect and true friendship that they deserve. What I seem on this site is some use lips service or use friendship to get something outta someone for their personal gain. I look for friends to be just that friends and nothing more. If something grows outta the shit, then that's a good thing. It just I seen people on this site being up drama and jealously to just fuck up a good thing. Also, I hate say this I also seen racism on this site too, and it's shame that its 2013 and we still got some stupid people who thinks mixing of races is totally wrong. This is a social website for people to make new friends regardless of race, creed or sexual choice. It just that I have ran into people on here, who thinks I'm out of place for talking to a white woman. My parents experience this bullshit back in day and its wasn't pretty, and I'm not going put up with it this day and age. I know a lot of you people don't take me seriously and that's alright, but one thing I will let you know that is what I feel and mean is for real, I don't bullshit nobody or stalk women just so I own somebody. If you want my friendship that's fine, if not that's fine too, cause way I look at it, I came into world without you, and I'm going leave this world without you, so it doesn't matter. I just want to meet new people and enjoy experience and not have to put up with bullshit. I know you make not understand this blog, but what I'm trying say is we should respect people and show respect, and not play these stupid games. We are grown-ups and we should start act like and not act like assholes. I know who my true friends are on this shit, and always said if want deal with me fine, and if not that's fine too, but don't bring your racism and drama to my spot cause I don't want or need it. Like I said this is more if a personal blog than anything else. If I have offend you please forgive me. I end this by saying you can love me or hate me I don't give fuck, at end of day I'm still going be me Andre. Peace!

I wanted address this subject, cause the months that I have been on FU it's seems to me you take this to seriously. What I want talk about is FU marriage and I hate tell you ladies and gentlemen its not a real marriage. Chances of you meeting this so called soulmate is slim and none. I'm not against love or feeling attractive to someone. Just because I send a woman profile comment does not mean I'm trying to hit on your woman. It's called being friendly and respectful and getting points and that it's nothing more. It's just seems that I have watched people on this site play with people hearts and emotions and really no call for that. We are all grown ups here I hope, that we can figure out what's reality and what's fucking fake. I'm totally glad for person who found someone on here, if its real then God Bless em, but please think and get know person first, it's not about banging someone or that person looks good as hell, everybody that's looks good, sometimes is not good for you. So if your fu-wifey want show respect and love to other men or women don't take as she legally belongs to you, cause she don't. This is game to waste time with and to have fun, not cause drama. I just feel that when get on here they get caught up and sense of logic just goes out the window. So if you want meet someone on this site cool, if your interest just having a friendly talk with me, then don't take it out on me. I try to be respectful to everyone feelings and situation. If I want take your woman I would but, I'm not that type of man. I just want to say think what you getting yourself into before you throw away money and get your feelings hurt. I know a lot of people isn't going like what I said, but IDGF, it needs to said, Fubar is game for grown-ups can we please try act like that, instead of hating on someone cause he or she friends with your personal interest! It's called the world and if learn that you can go a lot further and a lot less stress. There are a lot of attractive people on here, cause he or she says nice things to you or you throw boatload of money at em buying buying bling and shit, it doesn't mean they want to fuck you, it's your money you have choice, they owe nothing to you cause you bling them to death. Whole thing of this site is use good judgement and common sense, but shit I know that not going happen you're going to have same people making same mistakes on here and guess what you're blame for their mistakes, Go figure!