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LOVE ON LINE

The question posed before me in a conversation. In my personal opinion, do I believe you can find true love on line etc…? NOW, here is a subject teeming with conjecture, speculation, theoretical ponderings and, debate. Well now let’s just look at this a while. First you have to know what love is. As in every emotion, all are basically the same for everyone but, also different for every individual. Love of course is one of these, and the one with the most conjecture involved. As defined by the American Heritage Dictionary (my Webster’s has come up missing) Love; 1) An intense affection and warm feeling for another. 2) A strong sexual desire for another. 3) A strong fondness or enthusiasm. 4) a zero score in tennis. Very vague I know. But none the less let’s work with it. First some examples. A nephew of mine talked on line for some time with a woman. They are now married,5 yrs, and very happy. A work colleague of mine met her husband of 3 years on line in an aol chat. They are so in love they are almost disgusting. Another person I know is getting married in march to a woman he met on Myspace. Those of course, are just a few positive examples. On the other hand, a woman I know talked on line to a man for two years. She gave up everything, her job, sold her house and moved to Texas to be with him. Only to find out he had all kinds of mental problems and had abusive tendency’s. He shunned her and sent her back home. An acquaintances on line girl friend had self abusive tendency’s, A drug problem and was in serious trouble with the law. He did not know this until moving to be with her. There are enumerable examples both positive and negative. With this in mind, we get back to the question on hand. In my personal opinion is this possible? Yeah, Yeah! The whole opinions and assholes thingy yada , yada, yada, pppppffffffffttttt. Examining all the examples, good and bad , 1) It is evident and apparent that yes you can have intense affection and warm feeling for another on line. 2) Speaking from personal experience as well as the examples afore mentioned, yes you can have strong sexual desires for a person on line. 3) evidence shows, as well as personal experience, that yes you can have a strong fondness and enthusiasm for another person on line, 4) A zero score in Tennis?? Well yeah I guess you can have one of those too. The point is that love is different for every person. It comes when it comes, you can’t control that. Even people who met their spouses “the regular way” have found good and bad in their relationships. Love is a gamble no matter how you meet that significant other. People have talked about the “false faces” of people on line. What about the wemon who’s boy friends were the most attentive, careing, giving, and loveable men on earth, then when they got married turned out to be overbearing, selfish and abusive. Or that perfect lady that every man wanted and you got, who turned out to be a total psychotic bitch. Arent those false faces? In conclusion, I would most definitely have to say that it is very plausible and possible to fall in love on line. Though not practical. The chances we take either out on the street, or here on the net are our life’s learning experience’s. Remember the friend I spoke of in my first blog. Take those experiences and use them. Don’t judge other people for what they do or say. Remember there is someone watching you, and, judging you. Dedicated to Blue~Eyed Angel
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