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Date Ideas Visit the zoo See an aquarium Go to a play Visit an art gallery Play board games Go to a drive-in movie Go to a car show Go see fireworks Go to a movie Go to an ice skating show Go to a concert Visit garage sales Go to an air show Play card games Make your own video Karaoke See a musical Go to a concert Go out for a cultural dinner Visit a children's hospital Go to the symphony Visit each other's grandparents Volunteer together Go camping Go horseback riding Go miniature golfing Go whitewater rafting Go dancing Rake leaves & play in them Play a game of tag Hopscotch Climb trees together Take a riverboat cruise Play broomball Play kick the can Ride a ferry or steamboat Waterslide Go swimming Go moped riding Go to the driving range Play touch football Jet ski Go sledding Work out together Build a snowman Make snow angels Sunbathe together Run together in the rain Play racquetball Badminton Ride go-carts Beach volleyball Catch fire flies Snowball fights Go for a country drive Go stargazing Rent a movie Have a picnic at home Look at Christmas lights Go to a museum Watch the sunset Bake cookies together Do laundry together Make ice cream Go for a sunset walk Cook dinner for each other Go grocery shopping Build ice cream sundaes Color in coloring books Go to an arcade Visit a city that is the name of a state Take a sleigh ride Go snowmobiling Play frisbee Park and star watch Visit a pet store Rent a limo for the evening Walk on the beach at midnight Roast marshmallows over a campfire Visit favorite childhood places Winter Date Ideas Finger paint Snuggle up in front of the fireplace Go to the beach Visit a city park Pillow fight Go kayaking Walk your dog Play hide and seek Go ice skating Go roller blading Build models Pick colorful fall leaves Go for a moonlit walk Watch TV together Decorate a Christmas tree Feed ducks at a pond Go on a hay ride Snuggle Carve a jack-o-lantern Watch the sunrise Go shell searching on the beach Visit an orchard Watch little league games Watch planes take off See a midnight movie Go to a wedding together Look for 4-leaf clovers Fruit tree picking /orchard Go window shopping Read tabloids & laugh together Thumb wrestle Puddle jump in the rain Play tennis Play volleyball Hot air balloon ride Ride a bike built for two Go water-skiing Go sailing Go to a playground Go to the horse races Go to an amusement park Play laser tag Learn to rock climb Go bowling Play basketball (1 on 1) Cook out Visit caves Fly a kite Give each other backrubs Take a helicopter ride Go deep sea fishing Go scuba diving Go on a hayride Walk through a mall Have a small party Go to church together Go to a boating show/race Take a hobby class Visit a haunted house Go to a circus Go out for coffee Visit a flea market Cruise in a convertible Go to an all you can eat buffet Go to a ballet Play bingo Help at a soup kitchen Go to an opera Go to a bookstore Visit another city Go hear jazz or reggae Go on a cruise Do yard work Have shaving cream fight Trampoline Go Snowboarding Go Skiing Listen to music Go snorkeling First Date Go to a football game

If only there was a clear cut way to know for sure if your partner is cheating on you. Unfortunately, very few cheating partners are willing to be honest about their behaviors. Recognize the signs of cheating boyfriend or girlfriend. These five signs of cheating will save you time and heartache. **Loss of Sex Drive Unless there is another cause of stress (i.e., difficult assignment at work), then a sudden loss of interest in sex may indicate your loved one is getting it elsewhere. **Defensiveness A cheating partner often feels bad deep down and this guilt can come out via defensiveness or blame placed on you. Be on the look out for signs of aggressiveness from your partner. **Host of Excuses They may seem cliche, but comments about needing to work late, having to take a business trip, or needing to unexpectedly meet with a client, can all be signs of cheating. **Telephone Hang-Ups If your partner's new liaison is bold enough to call your home number, he or she may hang up if you answer, instead of your partner. Be on the look out for frequent hang-ups. **Gifts Out of Nowhere Besides defensiveness, your cheating partner may try to throw you off track by being extra nice. Flowers, chocolate, and other gifts, especially if they are typically uncommon, could be a sign of infidelity. Please do keep in mind that none of these signs are guarantees of a cheating partner. They are only indicators, and the more of them you see, the higher the chances something is going on. Communicate with your partner if you feel something is going on, and you'll give your relationship the best shot at surviving over the long haul.

Flirting Tips Women are so much more subtle about flirting clues that men need to really pay attention. Ladies, men are not used to women flirting with them. An overwhelming majority of men said they would just love it if a woman would talk to them first or at least express a larger clue that you were interested in checking them out. #1: Repeated contact...at least three separate verbal or non-verbal clues need to be given. Why? The first time he's going to look around and make sure it's really him that you are flirting with. The second, he knows it's him and he gets flushed and pleased. (At this point he'll probably walk by you and at least smile..he's checking you out a little more.) The third time you can express interest-by introducing yourself, or commenting on his tie, or waving from across the room. Now he knows you are open to meeting and it will be a cinch. #2: Whisper...it always gets their attention. Ask them if you can tell them a secret...Then whisper in their ear: 'I just love your tie...can I buy it from you when you are done with it?' #3: Don't sit with other women...men don't want you to reject them in front of an audience. If you do go out with a friend...separate every so often or take a breather from talking...men do not want to risk your disapproval by interrupting you. (You have already missed out on a lot of quality polite men who didn't want to interrupt.) #4: Treat men gently...If someone you are not interested in approaches you and flirts ...be nice.... All the other men are watching to see what you do. If you laugh after he leaves or show visual disapproval, you are cutting your chances on anyone else approaching you. Try shaking his hand and saying something like: 'It was so nice of you to approach me...what's your name? Tom? Tom, I know how hard it is to meet people...I might have a girlfriend who would be interested in you.' #5: IF he acts like a JERK! Be polite but firm. Hand him a copy of the men's version of 'Flirting with Greatness' and ask him to go practice on someone else. Firmly say that 'lines' with sexual overtones are not only not attractive to you but to most other women in the world. #6: Use the Buddy system. Walk through a group of men and have someone watch to see who's checking you out. #7: Become More Irresistible! Show a little leg....wear higher heels...the redder the lipstick the more available and noticeable you will be. Arch your back a little as you sit up tall and cross your legs high. Wear earrings that are interesting enough to make someone comment on them. #8: Look over your shoulder...and smile at him. This asymmetrical position is always a signal you are interested. #9: Give him a look all over from head to toe - nod with approval and then flash him your most winning smile. #10: Remember that flirting is a way of connecting from the heart and acknowledging someone. Be generous! Have Fun!