im a open mind person who trying to fine the right one man its hard you try to be tell the trutht about your self and they dont beleave you or get mad or they want a one night stand i try some daTING SITE AND WHEN YOU NOT A MEMBER YOU GET 10 EMAILS A DAY THEY WANT TO MEET BUT I CANT WRITE BACK TO SAY YES LETS MEET but when you be come a member then you might get one are to a week or they want you to talk to but you have to pay for it how can any one find some one if you have everything against you well hope someone can help