A few short days ago the ex messaged me through e-mail that my adopted daughter wished her step father to become her new dad. And that he indeed wanted to adopt her. Based on this troubling news, I decided to let her go. What else can I really do? So I wrote back that I would not fight it in court, and if that was truly what Chelsea wanted. After all, I have been e-mailing Chelsea without a reply back from her for a couple of months. And she hasn't bothered to call either. I try calling, but her cell phone is always off it seems. They don't have a home telephone number. So I will assume its true since I do not have visitation with Chelsea any longer since her mom wants to put her in the middle of our private "war". Since I believe that isn't good for her in any way, I chose to not take my visitation under the advice of my attorney.
Well, yesterday I got a response back from the ex. In this one, she is threatening to take me back to court for more child support. Stating that she was gonna possibly get a cut from California on her adoption assistance money. And low and behold, stating that her new hubby "could not at this time adopt Chelsea". LOLOL. It is so like her. Using the child to get to me. But what she didn't realize is that I have stopped fighting. Or have I?
I wrote to the adoption assistance agency in California yesterday. Stating that in the divorce, we have joint custody of our adoptive daughter Chelsea. In it, I put the date I filed for our divorce, the date it became final, and the dates her and her new hubby started living together before they were married. Along with his two kids. Since she said that she had contacted them with that information some years ago, I thought it might be interesting to find out just how much she has told them. I also asked how come I was not kept in the loop concerning their decisions, since I do have joint custody.
One way or another, I intend to dig up the truth in this matter. And I am just tired of all the bullshit things she does to get at me. And for what? Because I asked for her to send some paperwork to me via mail so I can have my attorney look it over on the refinancing of her Jeep? Yep. Thats what started this whole mess. Geeze, if ya can't make it in the household with two incomes, how the hell do I make it on one? And they are both licensed nurses. Go figure.
