Roads untraveled's blog: "Such Trivial Things to Make People so complacent"

ITS FUNNY,  PEOPLE HOLD ON TO THE LITTLE THINGS THAT THEY THINK MAKE THEM WHO THEY ARE, AND YET IT DOESNT. VERY ATTRACTIVE WOMEN BELIEVE THEY HAVE TO BE WITH AN ATTRACTIVE MALE TO SHOW THEIR STANDINGS IN A SOCIAL CLICK. BUT AFTER AWHILE THEY COME TO FIND OUT THE HARD WAY FROM BEING TREATED BAD TO BEING FORGOTTEN OR NEGLECTED TO BEING BEATEN OR WORSE. MEN AND WOMEN ARE BOTH THE SAME IN THE HABIT OF BEING CREATURES OF HABIT, WOMEN LOOK AT MEN AND SEE THEIR SEX APPEAL, THE MANNER IN WHICH THEY DRESS AND TAKE CARE OF THE WAY THEY PRESENT THEMSELVES, IF THEY TRIM THEIR NAILS REGULARLY, HOW THEY SMELL, HOW THEY LOOK AT THEM... NOW THIS ONE IS KINDA A MULTIPLE PART ONE BECAUSE THE WOMEN WANT TO BE SEEN AS BEAUTIFUL AND WANT A MAN TO SEE THAT SO MORE THAN A DEEP BUT QUICK LOOK SEEMS TO BE CROSSING THE PERSONAL LINE OF JUST LOOKING. BUT NOT ENOUGH LOOKS AT THEM FROM A MALE THEN THEY SEEM UNATTRACTIVE OR REGARDED AS NOTHING MORE THAN ANOTHER FEMALE AND THIS MAY SEEM UNIMPORTANT YET IT IS A SELF ESTEEM THING FOR WOMEN, BEING ATTACTIVE AND BEAUTIFUL IS VERY IMPORTANT FOR A WOMEN WHO WANTS TO BE NOTICED TO FEEL BEAUTIFUL, SO WOMEN ARE ALWAYS LOOKING AND MEASURING UP THE THINGS THAT THEY MAY NOT REALIZE OR MAY BE AWARE OF IN A MAN TO HELP THE SELECTIVE PROCESS OF FINDING THAT PERFECT MATE THEY CAN FEEL SURE THEY CAN HAVE CHILDREN WITH EVEN IF THEY DONT WANT CHILDREN.... ITS A NATURE THING IN US ALL.. NOW MEN.. WHAT WE LOOK FOR IN WOMEN IS THINGS THAT EXCITE US MENTALLY AND PHYSICALLY, BY THIS I MEAN THE LITTLE THINGS WE LIKE... EYE COLOR, HAIR COLOR, SIZE AND SHAPE, ALL ASPECTS OF FEATURES, BUT ALSO WE LOOK AT THE CHARACTERISTICS THAT A FEMALE MAY HAVE.... CLINGY, GOOD SENSE OF HUMOR, INDEPENDENCE, NURTURING ABILITIES, MANNER IN WHICH THEY TAKE CARE OF THEMSELVES, MOODS, RESPONSES TO DIFERENT OPINIONS, THE WHOLE OUTLOOK ON THINGS THEY THINK OF AND THE WAY THEY ACT. NOW BOTH MEN AND WOMEN ARE MORE TARGETED TO THE ATTRACTION THROUGH APPEARANCE AND THE WAY THE OTHER LOOKS..... THIS IS GOOD BUT IT IS ONLY INSTANT GRATIFICATION AND NOTHING MORE AND WHEN THE LOOKS GET OLD AND THEY HAVE SEEN THE SAME FACE A THOUSAND TIMES THEY BECOME LESS INTERESTED IN ONE ANOTHER LEADING TO QUICK RELATIONSHIPS OF JUST SIMPLE GRATIFICATION AND IT LEADS NOWHERE. NOW WHEN PEOPLE GET OVER THESE THINGS BY EITHER LEARNING FROM MISTAKES BECAUSE THEY WERE TREATED BADLY OR THEY SEE THE EFFECTS OF A LONG LASTING AND HAPPY RELATIONSHIP THEY START TO RELIZE THAT LOOKS DONT AMOUNT FOR MUCH WHEN THEIR HAPPINESS IS TO BE SACRIFICED FOR IT, CAUSE WHETHER IT TAKES ONE DAY OR FIVE YEARS THEY WILL LEARN THAT IN ORDER FOR SOMEONE LIKE THEM TO BE HAPPY THEY HAVE TO GIVE UP THEIRS AND IT ISNT A FAIR TRADE FOR SOMEONE WHO WANTS TO BE TRUELY LOVED FOR AS LONG AS THEY WILL LET SOMEONE LOVE THEM AND WE ALL WANT TO BE LOVED RIGHT. SO LOOK FOR HAPPINESS NOT THE PERSON WHO EVERYONE WANTS,  FIND THE ONE WHO WANTS YOU FOR YOU NO MATTER WHAT AND THAT YOU KNOW WILL MAKE YOU HAPPY AS YOU WILL THEM.