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ROCK ANGEL DNO's blog: "life"

created on 10/08/2008  |  http://fubar.com/life/b251053

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It does not really matter how fast you’re going if you’re heading in the wrong direction

Nobody grows old by merely living a number of years, People grow old by deserting their ideals, dreams, goals and beliefs. Years may wrinkle the skin, but to give up goals, dreams and beliefs wrinkles the soul.
   It is not the years in your life but the life in your years that counts. The best part of the art of living is to know how to grow old gracefully. The knowledge you possess. All the mistakes you have made throughout your life and learned and have grown from them.
   You can't help getting older, but you don't have to get old. You're never to old to become younger in your heart and in your thoughts. Wrinkles should merely indicate where the smiles have been.
   I truly don't know what the big deal is about old age. So many elderly shine from inside and look 10 to 20 years younger. Are you truly only as old as you feel. As for me; Some days I feel 25 other days I feel 65. So what's up with that. The funny thing about all this is; If your completely stressed out you fell 70. If your happy and at peace you feel 25. It's all in the mind. Age is just in the mind. The best part of the art of living is to know how to grow old gracefully.
   As you grow older don't slow down. Speedup. There's less time left! Live your life, forget your age. If you rest you rust.
  So many without a partner in their lives are stressed because we think we're to old to find one. The negative thoughts come through; I'm going to grow old and die alone. I'll never find that special person, the best are already taken, etc. My reality is; I believe their truly is a very special person out there for each and everyone of us. Your never to old to meet that soulmate and that person that will hold your hand for the rest of your life. I'm only 46 but feel 30. I know I'm not even half way through my life yet. I have another 50 years to go. I never give up my dreams. I'm patient. The biggest difference between me now and me at 25 is I'm much brighter, wiser, aware of how life works and know what type of women I want to share the rest of my life with. I'm not going to settle for anyone less. Never stop believing. It will happen for all of us who dream and truly believe. Copyright: Rich R 4/16/09

To be loved be lovable

You'll never be happy if you can't figure out that loving people is all there is. And that's is more important to love than be loved. Because that is when you feel love, by loving somebody.

  The simple but observable fact is that the more you love, the more you are able to love. Understand that saving love doesn't bring any interest. So many are afraid to show their love and give it out unconditionally. How can one expect to truly be loved when you can't give it yourself.

   We all have barriers that have gone up because of a bad experience. This is normal, but we can't live in the past. Learn from the experience, understand it's over and move on. Don't make your new partner pay for what your last one did to you. Give your new partner a chance.

   You don't have to go looking for love when it's where you come from. The love we desire is already within us. When your really ready to be loved, it will find you.

  The supreme happiness in life is the conviction that we are loved. If you ever expect to be loved, you must reveal who you are, not who you want to be.
   It is difficult to know at what moment love begins; it is less difficult to know that it has begun. Falling in love to me consists merely in uncorking the imagination and bottling the common sense.  Copyright: Rich 3/13/09

TO BE YOU

To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment.”

Life has it's own direction It isn't true that life is one damn thing after another; it's one damn thing over another. Life is much easier if we can accept a few basic rules. Accept the impossible, do the indispensable, and bear the intolerable. One learns in life to keep silent and draw one's own confusions. Life just happens. There's no controlling it. You just need to flow with it. All the ups and downs. Give yourself the moment. Just let it happen. Life can only be understood backwards, but it must be lived forwards. Don't continually try to look for answers that aren't there. Most of life's questions have no answers so don't kill your self trying to solve these puzzles. Let them go, move on. Life is not a problem to be solved but a reality to be experienced. Simply; Life is just something that happens to us all while were making other plans. Life has it's own coarse. No one can write there own auto biography in advance. One could say the first part of their life was ruined by their parents and second part by their children. Everyone has a reason or an excuse for the way they are. We make our own decisions. No one is twisting our arms. We create our own lives and destiny's. If your not happy in the way your living, change it! But realize the grass isn't always greener over there but sometimes it actually is. Life is a confusing game. But we all have to play it. all you can do is make it simpler or easier on yourself. And that is just understanding things happen beyond our control. Good and bad. Very simply said; One's only real life is the life one never leads. Personally it seems my entire life is like that of a movie. All the ups and downs I've endured. I've had to live through every agonizing stressful time in it. My life needs editing. The tragedy of life is what dies inside a person while they live. Life would be so much better if we could be born at the age of eighty and gradually approach eighteen. To live life easier is to never take life to serious. Understand shit happens; to all of us. But life still goes on. Don't dwell on the bad, look to the good. This world can be a comedy to those who think and a tragedy to those who feel. As I personally grow understanding life less and less I learn to live it more and more. The longer I live the more beautiful life truly becomes. Copyright:
Never look down on anyone unless your helping Keep in mind that the true meaning of an individual is how he treats a person who can do him absolutely no good. Most of us all put people in some sort of class in our heads. That person is good, that person is trailer trash, that person is screwed up in the head, that person is an alcoholic or a drug addict. Think for a second; have ever been there before? Allot of you have. But you're over that now or you're still there. Everyone was created equal. Everyone goes through stages in there lives that hopefully they learn from. Everyone has low points and high points through there lives. I repeat this phrase so much but I'll say it again anyway. We all ride that roller coaster of life. We all have ups and downs. Just know when your down you will start back up again. It never stops. It starts when your born and stops when you die. No one can get off the ride. So learn to enjoy it. It's free! Everyone is there with you on that same ride. The rich, the poor, the beautiful, the not so beautiful, the overweight, the skinny. You are not alone. Never look down on anybody unless you're helping them up! Be nice to people on your way up because most likely you'll meet them on your way down. Be there for your friends in times of need. It's not easy to be around someone who is going through rough times or having severe emotional problems because it brings you down watching and hearing them so depressed. We all know this. But true friends and truly warmhearted people will try to help. It does take allot out of you but remember when your down you will need the emotional support as well to get you going in that right direction again. Give; never expecting anything in return but know there is a good chance that person can and will be there for you when you might be in there spot! Learn to understand and don't be selfish in your wisdom and words of encouragement. Just a hug or a few conversations can make all the difference in the world! Copyright: Rich R 9/28/08
Sometimes life just isn’t fair It's time to allow emotional wounds to heal, to let go of excuses and stop feeling sorry for yourself. It's time to get rid the victim mentality. No body ever promised us that life would be fair. Frankly it can suck at times and incredibly difficult just to make it through the day. Quit comparing your life to someone else's, and quit dwelling on what could of been, should of been, or might have been. How do you really know what is going on in that other person's life or in there thoughts. Life is difficult for everyone, and that my friends is a fact! Quit asking questions such as, "Why this?" or Why that?" or "Why me?" Don't even ask. With so many questions we have there simply are no answers to! We all live in a society that loves to make excuses, one that is heard over and over again is "It's not my fault." The truth is, if we are bitter and angry, it's because we are allowing ourselves to remain that way. We've all had bad things happen to us throughout our lives. If you look hard enough, you can easily find reasons to have a chip on your shoulder and carry it around with you for days or even years. Anyone can make excuses and blame the past for his or her problems, or poor choices or just plain anger. Only you have the power to let it go and when it does go it's like a 25 lb. weight being dropped of your shoulders. You decide what enters your thoughts and what remains in your thoughts. Because someone plants a negative, discouraging thought in your mind doesn't mean you have to water it, nurture it, and help it grow. You can choose to dismiss it from your mind. Your mind is like a giant computer in that your brain stores every thought you've ever had. Nevertheless, because a destructive thought is stored in your mental computer does not mean you have to continually replay it. Defrag it like you would a computer. Clear and reset! Push that imaginatary button and let it go. When it comes back tell yourself it's gone and I'm not going to listen to it. I simply call it refreshing your mind. Controlling your thoughts and refusing the bad ones to stay. This can be done. Trust me on this. It truly works! Copyright: Rich R 10/2/08
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