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In my humble opinion, promising to love someone for the rest of your life is not reasonable. Love is an emotion, a feeling one has for another, and in its purest form has nothing to do with chemistry or physical attraction. There are many types and each type with its varying levels. Love is alive. It consumes, it grows, it changes, it rises and falls, it sparks and burns, it takes you to the heights of heaven and can drag you to the depths of hell. Love is spontaneous, untameable, unpredictable, a joy, an affliction, an intangible passion rarely the same from day to day, beyond human control, much less clear cut solid definition.

Promising to love someone til death is not unlike swearing you will feel happy everyday regardless of the trials and challenges facing you along your journey thru this life. Promise honesty, promise respect, promise no matter what happens I can count on you to have my back the best you can. Those are reasonable. Two lovers bound by vows before the creator and their families and friends can be a beautiful thing, but promising the impossible only sets us up for failure.

Actions define truth, not promises. How can we safely place our faith in a partner whose actions prove them unworthy of our trust, undeserving of our respect much less our precious sentiments of that illusive creature some call love. Love is alive. Love can die. Its either there or it isnt. Dont confuse it with commitment. Dont think you can inspire it in another by changing yourself to please them or shmoozing them with baubles. If you cannot find love by being true to yourself then stop searching so desperately, stand still and do your own thing long enough and love with sneak up and find you itself. 

Have a blessed day my friends ♥

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