Okay, I'm not normally a person who gets mad. And I can see how the environment in this site, much like the environment of a real bar, can cause conflict to arise, and emotions to run high. And the person I'm about to write about, well, if they read this and get pissed off, I really don't care.
That said, I started talking to what seemed like a really nice guy last night. The talk turned sexual, (he initiated it) But that doesn't bother me. What bother's me is he makes a big deal on his page about being honest, and real and no lies or games or other shit, then turns out to be nothing but a game player himself.
It says on my profile that I'm married, but this person got all pissed off at me like a little kid cause despite the fact I have problems in my marriage, he couldn't seem to understand why I would be hesitant to have sex with him if he lived closer to me. Or why I want to stay with my husband and take him places with me cause he doesn't always give me as much sex as I would like.
First of all, I love my husband, and there is nothing on my profile to suggest otherwise. I do like to flirt, and have fun, and my husband is okay with this. If he created a cherry tap account and flirted with girls, I would have no issues with that. I know whose bed he's in every night, mine. The same goes for him.
That being said, this person got awfully huffy about my feelings for my husband, despite the fact he's only known me for like a day. And the biggest part of our convo was about sex. I don't understand why he got so angry over my answer to a hypothetical question as to whether I'd sleep with him if he lived close to me. Going by his past, it's surprising to me he'd think it ok for someone to cheat on their spouse with HIM, when he was hurt by someone who cheated on him. When I tried to be nice and apologize for hurting his feelings, he just acted the tragic hero for all the things that have happened to him.
Then he proceeds to write a blog called "Trust" and blocks me from reading it. And deletes me from his friends list. Does he think I'm stupid??
The large majority of people I've met on Tap have been really nice, friendly and all. I plan on making my profile much more clear as to my intentions on this site, so this same kind of thing doesn't happen again. Flirting is fine, and frankly I like talking about sex. It's a subject I enjoy and I don't even mind roleplaying a little cyber sex from time to time and my husband is ok with this. He has done it himself. But it goes no further for me than the chat room. I don't care if you live 5 miles from me or 500 or 5000. The answer will always be the same, I love my hubby, and he’s the man I’m going to be sleeping with.
He and I have talked about having sex with other people, just to spice things up, but have never followed through. So I don't know if I ever would. I can be brave online, but in the real world, well, things are different. Okay, I think I'm done ranting now. This blog is long enough. If you want to talk to me, about the weather, or about sex, or about anything, just know that you'll get honest answers from me and no matter what someone else might think, I don't play games and I don't lie.
