If you are polyamorous, poly friendly, or poly curious AND you
live near Los Angeles, or are willing to drive here, please join
the Los Angeles Polyamory
Meetup Group that I am Organizing. Let me know you found us on Fubar!

Another great Polyamory
Group in the San Fernando Valley is Live the Dream. Most of the
events for the meetup group are held at the Live the Dream Events.

Since so many seem to not read profiles all the way to the end, I am going to start off by saying I am in a relationship, several actually, and yes, they all know about one another. I am not looking for replacements!!! Additions, maybe, but definitely not replacements. I am also not looking for casual sex partners. If you are not interested in forming a deep and fulfilling long term relationship, then I am probably not the type of person you are looking for. I am currently owned, so any new love interests need to be run by my Master. Also, if you are not poly, or poly curious, we will probably only be able to be friends. All messages sent to me are forwarded, at my discretion, to my partner(s) for our viewing pleasure. (This is to hopefully scare off the Horny Net Geeks "HNG's) If this does not scare you off, then by all means, keep reading :-)


I am not your typical run of the mill American female, at least not according to society's norms. It is not that I try to go against them, I just don't fit the mold. I love to wear dresses, corsets and high heel boots with a leather miniskirt, but I am also very independent. I am very dominant in my day to day living, but submissive in a relationship (once enough trust is built up). It is easy for me to switch roles in either situation when necessary (even though I may not like to switch). I fall somewhere in the middle of what society expects, and what it doesn't. Many find me an enigma when they first meet me, yet once they get to know me, I am easy to understand. I enjoy surprising people. I also enjoy being surprised. I walk the middle ground in most areas of my life. I seem to attract the extremes to me, pleasure and pain (I am currently Owned - SSC), light and dark, etc. I aspire to find the fulcrum between extremes and allow them to co-exist in harmony. More often than not, I am successful.

I am a 3rd degree Priestess. I practice eclectic Paganism, always walking the line between the light and dark sides. Want to know more, just ask. I follow my own religious path, which I describe as being eclectic LHP(Left Hand Path) Paganism. I also like the ideas and possibilities proposed by the Quantum Physics Theory of Observer Created Reality. This in turn goes right along with "The Law of Attraction."

I have 2 children, both boys who are the loves of my life. I have a BA in Child Development. I am polyamorous, meaning I practice polyamory, (polyamoury). I am not interested in traditional single husband/wife or girlfriend/boyfriend relationships or polyfidelity. The model I base my relationships on is Multiple Primary Open relationship. Other words related to that topic include polyfidelity, fluid relationships and non-monogamy. I am bisexual, with a preference for men. I am currently involved in a multi-partner poly relationship, and have no desire to leave any my partners, so please don't try to turn me monogamous. I have been monogamous in the past, and it just does not work for me, I have too much to give. I am very picky about my partners, and adhere to a strict fluid bond protocol within my relationships, and require my partners to do the same. Trust is the basis of a relationship, and the health of all members is of utmost importance. I do not have any STD's and would like to keep it that way.

I am currently the organizer for the Los Angeles Polyamory Meetup Group. Please feel free to join. I am also raising my kids to the best of my ability. One of my children has been diagnosed with Autistic Disorder which is similar to Asperger's Syndrome. Much of my time is currently spent getting his needs met. My other son has been diagnosed with ADHD-I and Dysthymic Disorder, so I am working with the school to try to get his needs met as well.

I enjoy trying new things, and pushing my own limitations. My explorations have resulted in many changes over the past two years. I am currently Owned. I have come to the realization that I m not happy in monogamous relationships. My heart is way to big to be able to love only one person. I also do not like the baggage that goes along with most monogamous relationships.

I am really good at moderating discussions, getting people to see each other's points of view. I am very good at knowing my own limitations, and am not afraid to speak up when need be. I am really good at reading other people's emotions, and have a knack for being able to see all sides of a situation.

I am good at offering advice, giving moral support, etc..... or so I have been told. I enjoy helping people as much as possible. I find it easier to keep my cool, than to lose it, and many people seem to respect the fact it is difficult to rile me.

I am tall, have long red hair, and green eyes. I am brutally honest. Many people make the assumption I am a fluffy bunny, and are surprised to find out I do have a very sharp set of fangs when I am crossed. My family and friends are my life, so don't even think ill of them.

Favorite Books are by the authors Christine Feehan, Mercedes Lackey, Andre Norton, Anne Bishop, Kate Forsyth, Anne Rice, Heinlein esp.Stranger in a Strange Land, and Kahlil Gibran. I also enjoy philosophy, mythology, psychology, and religion.

Favorite foods...steak and strawberries. Besides that, I enjoy Thai, Italian, Mexican, Chinese, Japanese, Mediterranean, Persian, and am willing to try new foods.

I don't like shellfish, shrimp, mushrooms, green bell peppers, or star melons. Unfortunately, raw meats don't agree with me either, but I love sushi when it has cooked fish, or veggies.


The SIX Things I Could Never Do Without

1. My Kids / My Family

2. Blood / Oxygen to the cells is a good thing!!

3. Yahoo Messenger / My Friends

4. Polyamory

5. Sleep

6. My TeufelWolf / My Master / My Partners


You Should Message Me If:

Paganism, Friendship, Polyamory, the Occult, etc.

If my having other partners does not scare you off.

You should NOT message me if you are ONLY interested in sex. Not only I will ignore you, but I will forward the messages to my Master and other partners for their viewing pleasure. I am picky about my partners, and need a spiritual bond in order to enjoy a physical one. Also do not message me if you think you can change my relationship preference. I was in a monogamous relationship for 13.5 years and will never do it again.

I enjoy helping others, learning about myself, learning about others, thinking about new things I want to try, my children, my partners and my friends.

I also think a lot about, energy balancing, tantra, magick, sexual experimentation ( I like to be kinky on occasion), and life in general.

I love to experience new things, and I love to push my own limits. I like to think about what makes "me" tick. I also like to observe others and figure out what makes them tick as well.

I enjoy cuddling, giving and receiving massage (I used to do it professionally), holding hands, falling asleep in my lover's arms, looking into people's eyes, making friends, helping others, learning, sleeping during the day, and staying up all night.

I have issues with the sun, so I tend to avoid it. The bright light and UV rays tend to give me migraines.