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I am Anna, I am 64,GETTING OLDER NOT OLD...5'6"...198 lbs. AUBURN, with hazel eyes.
I became a widow, In August.2011.;
THE HUSBAND THAT HAD DESERTED ME FINALLY SHOWED UP AFTER ALMOST 10 YEARS MOVED BACK TO FL THEN DISAPPEARED AGAIN.. TIL ONE NIGHT I GOT CALL FROM HOSPICE HE WAS IN HOSP, NOT EXPECTED TO MAKE IT THROUGH THE NIGHT...WANTED TO SEE ME...I WENT, HE TRIED TO APOLOGIZE...IT WAS A PEACEFUL GOODBYE..
UPDATE:AS OF 2014
HAD TWO BRAIN STROKES. JULY 24TH 'N' SEPT.04TH, 2012...SECOND ONE LANDED ME IN HOSP. WHERE I WAS DIAGNOSED WITH DIABETES, TYPE 2 BORDERLINE TYPE 1... & EXTREME HIGH BLOOD PRESSURE [REASON FOR STROKES]IN 2012... 'N' DIAGNOSED WITH CANCER AS OF NOV 7TH .2013...OTHERWISE DOING JUST FINE.
WAS SCHEDULED FOR SURGERY JAN.02,2014, HAD TO POSTPONE DUE TO ME GETTING BRONCHIAL PNEUMONIA IN LAST DAYS OF DEC.
A YEAR OLDER & NOW BACK TO WAITING...FOR NEW PCP & NEW SURGERY TO BE SCHEDULED...
BEING DIABETIC & HAVING BREAST CANCER SUCKS...BUT STILL I MOVE FORWARD.
AS OF AUG. STILL WAITING ON DOCTORS AND TESTS AND ANSWERS...
I am well traveled, well educated, & Jill of Many Trades/ Mistress to No one. Just Me, Not Typical anything. Fit into no known molds.I am easy to keep happy. Just don't treat me like a Barbie doll ... Just 'Show' me, you care,share 'open' communication,I Have an Analytical Mind and Good Common Sense and Enjoy using them both Daily and Deal in truths and FACTS, it's the one thing no one can Argue with. Upfront to a fault.Believe it's better for people to know where I've been so that they can see Clearly where I am Coming from.This way No misjudgements cast. I like simple things when shared by two looking in the same direction at the same time.Not to get caught up in daily Drama.I am down to earth country girl w/ city girl mind. I was a total tomboy growing up who learned how to get the job done but still know How to be a Lady.There are times to wear jeans & boots, & other times for something more fem-fatal... I like who I am & hope you will too...I am Easy to get to know, Easy to look at & hopefully Hard to forget...I firmly believe in: US, WE, & OURS...Always. Now If you can deal with All this, let me know.
BASICALLY;I am easy going till backed into corner or PUSHED...Open, & Honest to a FAULT, enjoy life's many facets...looking to build a solid foundation, while creating and enjoying many good memories.
Starting over from scratch,AGAIN... I want to enjoy being me and all I can be to someone who will enjoy sharing what we find along the way.WHO MAKES ME, "BETTER THAN I AM ALONE"..
I've seen & done more in my lifetime so far...Than most people will experience in their whole entire lives..I have scars, some that are cut so deep, they may never heal...BUT I do not let them control my life or my thinking... I've known pain and I've worked hard to get me where I am right now, Emotionally/ Mentally, as well as Physically... I AM Whole & moving Forward....Hopefully NOT alone...I am a flirt but that doesn't mean I'm a Sexual Object or Plaything. And one more thing...Until you have walked a mile in my shoes, do not judge me...Do not ask why? Or how could you live like that?
The Choices I have made in my past are just That, MY CHOICES...99% of you don't care and will never know, What these choices were, How they affected me OR How they shaped me into the woman I am today...
Some of my former jobs that have helped me reach where I am; I have been a woman of many Hats, from Photo Model to Stage Dancer to OTR`Truck Driver to LE officer.to Pro.Photographer & Freelance Writer.Single Mom to 3 daughters... AND more.!
Now if you can deal with a woman with Brains and Good Common Sense and who enjoys using them daily...as well as being Easy to look at,Easy to get to know, & Hopefully Hard to Forget, then let me hear from you...You KNOW who you are, now find out who I AM...I could be your Newest Best Friend...OR...I could be More. I FIRMLY BELIEVE IN "US, WE, & OURS" Being the foundation to ANY relationship ...
Who I'd Like To Meet:
Someone who has confidence in himself, is REAL. Is able to talk openly about Anything & Everything ...
WHAT I WANT
First off, Respect..Treat me with respect and you will get the same in return..Second of all, I'm single yes...but that doesn't mean I'm desperate... I'm not stupid or naive...All I want is for one man to prove to me that they are not like the rest. Tired of Fantasy Players and Liars. I am not hard to get along with...For the most part... JUST BE YOURSELF, ALLOW ME TO BE ME... completed by mutual Respect/ Trust/ Communication & Love of Life and Each other...
Yes, I LIVE ALONE...I don't have friends locally, most are online...and I don't believe in one night stands /or/Booty calls...
When someone comes along that I believe, I can share in a relationship, then WE will take it from there...
POSITIVE TRAITS: Not into Head games, Heart Games, Basically NO game Players... Role Playing, yes...Emotional games, NO! TOO much is wasted when you play people...BE REAL you will go further and gain more.
Okay, back to describing the person I seek... Please IF all you want is a plaything or toy, I am NOT it...If we can't Talk Before, During, AND After, we don't belong...I want something real, which will create ALL the fun...I am just me, BUT I happen to like who I am...and Hope you will too. There is Nothing Typical about me, I fit no frames, no molds...I am growing by learning...as I said before I am getting Older NOT Old.they have to be open, honest and enjoy all of Life's many Pleasures...Including Good SEX & at least be willing to try a few new things to enhance what we both enjoy already. Ever tried Hang gliding ? ...How about making Love in the Park at Midnight, in the rain.? Or having a Picnic on the beach at three in the morning ? -or- Sharing one in our own back yard?
Age not as important as Personality and Outlook...ie.ATTITUDE...
Someone who enjoys using his mind and his body to create or obtain what he wants from life, and not afraid to stop and check out the many little things that make this world, Worth living in... LIKE ME, ADMIRE ME, LOVE ME & BE PROUD TO HAVE ME WITH HIM...SOMEONE WHO MAKES ME A BETTER PERSON, THAN I AM ALONE.We have a long Journey ahead of Us
so why not start now and start out open,gaining Trust and Respect as we grow together.
**** BOTTOM LINE *****
I NEED SOMEONE TO LOVE ME FOR WHO I AM, BUT MORE IMPORTANT TO ALLOW ME TO SHOW LOVE FOR THEM & SHARE WHAT...WE...HAVE OR FIND TOGETHER...
For Life to become as Precious to everyone as it is to me..
HAPPINESS THRU FRIENDSHIP & LOVE
My dream home:
SOMEWHERE QUIET AND OPEN FILLED WITH LAUGHTER AND LIGHT & THE WARM FRAGRANCES OF PASSION, BE IT EARTH OR HOME COOKING OR EVEN MOTOR OIL...
My dream car:
Celebrity I resemble:
> --YES...I AM VERY REAL...I AM JUST ME...CAN'T BE ANYTHING ELSE AND DO IT RIGHT SO MAKE THE BEST ME I CAN BE...
I HAVE NO JOB...CAN'T WORK...DUE TO MEDICAL RECORDS...NO CAR ... ONLY FRIENDS ARE ONLINE SO DON'T HAVE COMPANY THAT OFTEN. SPEND 98% OF MY TIME ALONE BUT NOT LONELY...I KNOW MY SOMEONE IS OUT THERE JUST DON'T KNOW WHEN OUR PATHS WILL CONNECT.
I DO A LITTLE FREELANCE PHOTOGRAPHY, COPY/PRINT&DESIGN WORK, & CRAFTS, WHEN I CAN, OTHERWISE I GET BY ON SMALL BENEFITS CHECK...ENOUGH TO KEEP ROOF OVER MY HEAD AND FOOD IN MY BELLY...HOPE TO HAVE MEDICAL SOON SO I NO LONGER HAVE TO BE CONCERNED WITH NEXT BATCH OF INSULIN & SUPPLIES.
THE HOUSE I LIVED IN HAD DAMAGE FROM IVAN & IS FILLED WITH "SPORES" & FALLING APART, BOARD BY BOARD, STONE BY STONE...BUT NO RENT...
I HAD TO MOVE AFTER MILD STROKE I HAD IN JULY...FOLLOWED BY HAVING 'BRAIN STROKE' IN SEPT...4 DAYS AFTER MOVING IN NEW PLACE. WHILE IN HOSPITAL THEY DISCOVERED I AM DIABETIC, TYPE2/BORDERLINE TYPE ONE, HAVING TO TAKE FOUR INJECTIONS OF INSULIN DAILY, HAVE HIGH BLOOD PRESSURE, TWO PILLS A DAY.& MULTIPLE NERVE DAMAGE, KEEPS ME ALERT TO BODY'S NEEDS, WHILE LEARNING NEW LIMITATIONS IN WHAT I CAN STILL DO AS WELL AS WHAT I HAVE TO DO DIFFERENTLY NOW... SUCH AS NO MORE LONG WALKS...NO CLIMBING LADDERS OR TREES...NO MORE LIFTING WEIGHTS OR RUNNING RACES...IN ORDER TO BE ABLE TO START NEW LIFE, HAVE TO REBUILD MUSCLES AND LEARN TO TAKE IT A DAY AT A TIME OR ASK FOR HELP. FOR NOW I AM MAKING MOST OF LIVING AND FEELING STRONGER & MORE LIKE ME WITH EACH NEW DAY... NOW DEAL WITH RENT, UTILITIES & GETTING DIABETIC SUPPLIES...[LOTS OF FUN !]...BUT IT'S MY NAME ON LEASE AND BILLS...A STEP FORWARD!!!
IN PAST 17 yrs.,I HAVE LEARNED TO DO WITHOUT A LOT OF THINGS, MOST PEOPLE TAKE FOR GRANTED:
BOTTOM LINE: I DO THE BEST I CAN, WHEN I CAN, WITH WHAT I HAVE...I EXIST...& SIMPLY SURVIVE !BUT ... TIRED OF DOING IT ALONE...
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PHOTOGRAPHY...[TAKING & POSING,] USE 35MM...DIGITAL...CAM...& VHS RECORDING...ALSO PHOTOS W/ CELL PHONE...ANY TO CAPTURE THE WORLD AROUND ME AND BE ABLE TO SHARE IT...SORT OF PHOTO LEGACY.
WRITING EROTICA WHEN ALL SEEMS WITHOUT A PATH INTO MY FUTURE...DESCRIPTIVE WRITING HAS ALWAYS BEEN ONE OF MY TALENTS THAT COMES NATURAL. HELPS THE READER TO SEE THEMSELVES WITHIN THE CHARACTERS THEY ARE READING ABOUT...I WRITE IN 3RD PERSON AS THE "FLY ON THE WALL" TECHNIQUE...CHECK OUT MY BLOGS...
COOKING...LOVE TO CREATE DISHES AS WELL AS PREPARE THE EVERYDAY ITEMS...
BAKING ...FROM ONE DISH MEALS ...TO A VARIETY OF DESSERTS...LOVE CREATING UNIQUE GIFTS...
THREE RULES IN MY KITCHEN: A DISH HAS TO: LOOK GOOD, SMELL GOOD, AS WELL AS TASTE GOOD, BEFORE I WILL SERVE IT...,
SOME SAY I COOK SOUTHERN FOOD, NORTHERN STYLE & NORTHERN FOOD, SOUTHERN STYLE...IT IS ALL COOKED WITH TIME, PATIENCE, AND LOVE... MUST BE DOING SOMETHING RIGHT. NO COMPLAINTS, SO FAR...
ARTS...ALL FORMS...VISUAL & WRITTEN AS WELL AS MUSICAL...
MY CRAFTING..PLASTIC CRAFT/ SEWING/ ART/ WOODWORKING ETC. I DESIGN ITEMS I NEED NOT JUST SOMETHING TO TAKE UP SPACE...
My passion is Photography. Followed by cooking, baking, crafting, creating things I need to make my life run smoother... Sewing, Art in every form...Music keeps my mind clear & free to deal with life's many Issues. Good & Bad.
I like getting dressed up and looking nice but am not afraid to get dirty...I like Hunting, Fishing, Boating, playing in the yard, Gardening...and Love Camping...REAL camping, tents/sleeping bags /cooking over a fire. Enjoying the outdoors & Mother Natures gifts to us. Rain, Gentle winds, Fluffy white clouds, a Summer day filled with all the scents of nature. Love picnics at any hour, anywhere... Love swimming, be it in a pool, the beach, or the river...AND SO MUCH MORE...
I love what I do, when given chance to do it. Enjoy many of life's given joys, from the sunshine on my face to wind in my hair, to rain drenching my body..want to share these things and more.
SPEND ALONE TIME:
PLAYING.GAMES ON PC..ENJOY ALL Hidden Object games. IE. Mystery P.I...ETC. Word games, Ocean Express, Zuma, Bejeweled & all Mahjong games...TOTALLY ADDICTED TO GARDENS OF TIME...
WORKING ON PHOTOS....FOR SELF AS WELL AS FAMILY.
MY PREFERENCE, WHEN I HAVE ANOTHER PLAYER[IN PERSON]:
Scrabble, Yahtzee, Samba(3-deck Canasta), Mahjong, & other board games...
Classical, Jazz, Blues, Pop, Folk, Easy Listening, and Country. Some Rap...
As long as you can understand the words and it makes you feel something inside. Some are for dancing to, some kissing to, and others for listening and letting your mind take you to the places the songs shows you in your mind.
All Ludlum's work and Mack Bolin- The Executioner series, as well as all John D. McDonald's works. Classics, Poetry, Literature, Most anything EXCEPT Horror or Romance novels...
MY PERSONAL MANTRA. Shibumi [read it you will discover the Me...inside].
THESE DAYS I RELY ON The "EYE WORLD" AS I REFER TO THE INTERNET...IT ALLOWS ME ACCESS TO ALL THE THINGS I AM INTO. & MORE.
Doctor Zhivago, Sabrina, Billy Jack, Pretty Woman, Criminal Passion, Piano, Where the Boys Are, Bat 21, Full Metal Jacket, Platoon, Ghost, Dirty Dancing, Wizards, Sin City, Jane, Wizard of OZ, any Seagal or Norris...& Sleepless in Seattle...Etc.http://www.tagged.com/profile.html
Mash, Bewitched, Genie, West Wing, Mike Hammer, Murder She wrote, Perry Mason, Quincy, ER, Matlock, Jag, Cheers, and currently, CSI (ALL), Bones, Cold Case, Law & Order,[ALL], and of course Without A Trace...
SUM of INTERESTS:
A LITTLE OF EVERYTHING.. BASICALLY LIVING LIFE TO THE FULLEST [WITHIN MY OWN LIFE'S LIMITATIONS]...from Art to Zoology... and a lot in between.
I have a main one: "Give Me A Reason"... and a new one, "que rico mami","Assumption is the mother of all fuck ups"
Workplaces: Wheresoever the assignment takes me...Work Freelance Photography when I can. I HAD A "COPY/PRINT & DESIGN" COMPANY...STILL DO WORK WHEN I HAVE REQUEST...
Your Dominant Intelligence is Linguistic Intelligence
Your Dominant Intelligence is Linguistic Intelligence
You are excellent with words and language. You explain yourself well.
An elegant speaker, you can converse well with anyone on the fly.
You are also good at remembering information and convincing someone of your point of view.
A master of creative phrasing and unique words, you enjoy expanding your vocabulary.
You would make a fantastic poet, journalist, writer, teacher, lawyer, politician, or translator.
Favorite Movies: Doctor Zchivago, Billy Jack, Sabrina, Pretty Woman, Piano, Where the Boys Are, Bat 21, Platoon, Ghost, Dirty Dancing, Wizards, Jane, Wizard of OZ, Road House, Sleepless in Seattle, Santa Claus-1,2,&3 anything with Steven Seagal, Sean Connery or Chuck Norris...Etc.
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