MidnightMarauder the Nocturnal One's blog: "The Gemini Mind"

When you first meet that person that gets your attention (like no other) wonderful things happen....all of a sudden you find yourself smiling more, pick your head up when you walk, start to "look" better to others around you....basically you get back into your life and get involved, cause you know that for whatever the reason you have someone that has brightened the "light" in you and made it shine again. for months you two share everything about each other from likes to your dislikes, your goals as well as what you fear......the two of you make an instant, beautiful connection that it gets harder and harder to get off the phone or leave the other's sight and thought you hold back while your spending time with this someone what you don't see is that lil by lil you start to let down your guard and fall for them (sometimes even when we do "see" it we don't care) cause we're soooo wrapped up in the feeling that we are thought of and cared about on a regular basis......

So why do things fall apart and crumble like it always stood on shaky ground?.....well here's my take on it (and please feel free to give your input....which for some I don't even have to ask...lol) it's a thing that we've all been doing since we were kids, and still do to this day.....Lose Interest..........as much as you sit there and try to deny it, you and I know it's true cause we've all done it maybe not consciously but subconsciously it's been done by us and to us......think about it when we were kids (those who can't remember then look at your own kids) when something caught our attention there was nothing in the world to stop us from having whatever it was, taking our focus and throwing it into a tailspin (see where I'm going?) now if you remember what happen after you got that what you desired most and had "your fun" with it.........(I'll wait)........yep exactly you lost interest and stopped playin with it entirely and moved on to the next thing that came along. Were not kids anymore...(well some of us anyway) and as adults we tend to do this more than we realize, some times after it's too late, so my point is this if your taking the time to get to know someone.....anyone and you "know" that your attention span is a mili-second stop everything there and let go cause if you know who you are(personality wise) then there's no point of "pretending" to like me, getting me all thinking about you all the time, and wanting to be with you, only to be brought down like a flaming rock....trying to destroying the light you helped shine again. You've heard the phrase.....what doesn't kill you.......(or in a Gemini's case) what doesn't "kill" the Gemini....makes the Gemini stronger

One of the many things we do after we chase and chase and finally catch and have fun for awhile is stop communicating...you go from being able to "always" reach them to barely if not reaching them at all instead you talk to their mother sooo much that even she stops answering cause she doesn't want to see us get hurt anymore. So what do you do? go back to the person you was b4 you met them?.....hell no you spent too much time and energy to get out of that hole so why put yourself back in it?....besides (and this is why I strongly believe in Karma) while you were enjoying the transformation that was happening to you with the person that helped? make it happen....there was somebody watching you and hoping they get the chance to one day tell you they've been watching you but didn't know how to approach you.....in fact your turn-around has given them the courage to come to you and tell you such things.....now you'd think that the cycle could repeat itself but with that transformation came an improved sense of awareness that helps you see things that you didn't see before.........

Plain and simple when someone brings you back from despair then lets you go.......don't worry cause there is "always" someone out there to never let you fall again unless they are falling with you