I mostly add friends for points to get me to Godfather in the end. However, those who show me they are legitimate friends will end up staying on my list in the end. If not, at least you get a profile rate and several pics rated IF I NOTICE YOU'RE A FRIEND AND I HAVEN'T DONE IT YET. If you expect me to jump through hoops that your user name does not specify (rate, fan, give blood, etc.) before you'll add me, then I'll give you squat. You do not push me when you don't even know me. I'll read your profile if I'm interested in knowing you, but otherwise I don't really care. It is a WEB SITE, not your CAREER...unless you're a mod and getting paid to be here. Most of you are just here for points, or (are you guys listening?) nudes and cyber sex. I'm here for the points, too, until I get where I want to be. Then I'll start deleting the ones who never say anything, but if I make some REAL friends along the way, all the better.
