It's all in how u look at it. U can be true and loyal to someone but in the end they will let u down. Pretty much always. U can just enjoy life and love many. Thats where I have been. I can find beauty in many people. While none seem perfect for me yet, i'm still making new friends and love each and every one for who they are and what they offer the world. That may seem crazy to alot of people but I think once u experience it all the reservations dissolve. It has for me anyway. I was loyal to one woman for many yrs. and I was let down many many times by her but u know what, I wouldnt trade that experience for anything. We had our time and all in all it was awesome for the most part and we still get along ok. Just my experiences since I have been dating. I think jelousy gets the best of many people and they have no idea what they are missing. I'm not talking about scoring with one chic after another, rather getting to know many and loving them and appreciating them for who they are and how they have touched your life. It's all good! We just gotta get a hold on that jelousy thing.