.....Just like asking is the glass half empty or half full. It all depends on how you look at it. When you love someone you experience feelings and emotions you never thought possible. But then you get hurt and thats the point of which you wished you has never falling in love in the first place. If nothing else, love is the only truth out there, it never tells you any lies, there is no "i think im in love" your in love, your just to scared to admit it in fear of getting hurt. But its just something that has to happen, yes its painful, and yes it takes a while to get over. But we do get over it. But there is that one special person that when you look into their eyes, you see more then love. Its a feeling that is highly unexplainable and unavoidable, and those are the ones who kinda sneak up on ya! You dont really look for them, but you find them either way! And they also happen to be the ones who change your world. They show you things that you never thought possible. Then, you drop the "L" word. And when you think about them, your face lights up and you cant help but to smile, and you feel like you have to give them the world, no matter what.That when they hold you, you feel like as if nothing in the world could harm you, or when your lips meet, they take your breath away every time, or when you hear a certain song come on and you just want to belt it out cause it fits how you feel so perfectly?? Or how when you lay on their chest and feel and listen to their heartbeat, it becomes your favorite sound in the world! Or when they put on that certain cologne, it just drives you crazy! Or when all you can do is think about hearing their voice again, when all you want to do is be there for them, but they seem to push you away!!Thats the part that hurts the most! So what is it?? Better to have loved and lost, then to have never loved at all?? I feel it is better to have loved and fight for that love then to just give it up! Why deny yourself of such wonderful feelings? Why push yourself away from someone who wants to love you and show you how much you mean to them! And this is where i come in about how everything happens for a reason. Well it does. When two people find one another, its for a very good reason, be it to teach one another or show them that it is ok to be in love. Whatever it is, it is obviously meant to be, just open your heart and your mind and let it all in. Its ok to feel things that you have never felt before, this is how we as humans, learn. If you are scared to love someone and let them in, then you will not be able to love anyone, you will always have that fear! If someone cares about you, loves you unconditionally and would do anything for you, why not embrace that?? The three main things that are important in any relationship..1.) Trust, without trust, there is no foundation, and thats very important in any relationship. 2.) Honesty, if your not honest, then there is no trust. 3.) Communication, you have to talk about your feelings. Let the other person know how you feel about them and what you are thinking. It helps in any relationship, and if someone is willing to love you and wanting to share many special things with you, why not let them? And yes, to answer some peoples questions, this is meant for someone in particular! He knows who he is! But thats not the point, the point is that if your happy, then be happy. Sometimes it hurts so bad that you just want to give up! You think that it is better to just end it then to go through the pain! Well maybe so, but again, dont let love go, fight for it. Dont give up, not unless you know for sure that things will not get any better! Change your stars!! Do whatever it takes to make them understand that you are not giving up. And again that is where communication and honesty come in. Tell that someone that you want them in your life, and if you dont, tell them too, dont just assume that they will get the hint!! And just to let you know, half empty or half full?? Well if your filling it up half way, then its half full, but if your pouring it you half way, then its half empty!!
