XxCountryxX's blog: "Judgement and Society "

As a woman of my age i come to realize that society can become a very cruel and judgemental on a woman just based on her looks alone. If ur not barbie blonde and skinny and blue eyes then a man wouldn't dare give that woman the time of day.What i don't get is why a man can say he accepts a woman for who she is but then when another pretty face walks by the other woman becomes invisible. I'm sorry but not all women are born to be model barbie types and there are real women like myself have a good heart but only get judged from the outside. I'm proud of what i am and who i am but and should be judge on whats inside of me not based on what someone sees on the outside. But im a woman who isn't tiny and barbie type have seen how cold a man can be when a itty bitty barbie blonde comes along and can see how the tables turn and how i became invisible.  Society thinks that's the only way a woman can be accepted by society is if she looks a certain way, acts a certain way etc instead of the real worth of a woman which her heart and soul on the inside. Ive seen reports and read where women go to the extreme to change themselves just to be able to feel confident and be accepted by the ones around and by society. Women go as far as extreme diets and surgery just to look the way that society thinks an attractive woman should look like.Is there any real man that will be honest and really truly except a woman for what she truly is and truly looks like or is all of society become the same. If that's the case then its clear then I'm a woman who will never be accepted because im far from being model material or a barbie look alike. I am who I am and should only be judged and accepted for who i am and nothing more or less and in honesty that's how all women should be accepted but with todays society being skinny model barbie type is what only men in todays society accept and want.But i am proud of who i am and if ANY MAN cant accept that then don't play with my heart and tell me u accept me for who am when u really don't.