Why do people have to "pretend" to be someone they aren't? Say what you mean and MEAN what you SAY. Don't play stupid games with other's feelings & emotions. If I screw up then I say it outloud and believe me I do from time to time. If you can't be real, honest, kind and caring then stay the hell away because I dont have time for the petty crap and games. Life itself is so short and I spent too much of mine in a bad situation. NO MORE I have my days ahead to go through and I DO intend to make them great ones. Either get ON the bus WITH me or clear out. Your choice.