We all are seeking that special person who is right for us. But if you been through enough relationships, you begin to suspect that there is no right person, just different flavors of wrong. Why is this? Because you your self are wrong in some way and, and you seek out partners who are wrong in some complentary way. But it takes alot of living to grow fully in to your own wrongness. It isn't intil you finilly run up against your deepest deamons, your unsolvable problems, the ones that make you who you truly are, that you're ready to find a life long mate. Only then do you finlly know what you are looking for. You're looking for the wrong person. But not just any wrong person, the "right" wrong person, someone you lovingly gaze upon and think, "this is the problem that I want to have". I will find that special person who is wrong for me in just the right way!