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Recently my grandmother and my father passed away leaving my grandfather alone. I am the only one left to take care of him. Now he calls me like every week complaining that he doesn't feel well and wants me to come stay with him for a few days. Now I don't have a job and I don't drive due to my own health reasons so I have to rely on my boyfriend to take me to his house. My grandpa lives about 45 min away from my boyfriend, So, I feel like I am putting alot of stress on him to take me over there to stay with him. Which of course I feel horrible about cause I don't like asking. But lately my grandpa has been calling almost constant and asking me to come stay because he don't feel good. Of course I tell him that I will come over and help him out but, I have to work with my boyfriend's schedule because he has to drive me there. So, I was thinking and wondering for anyone that actually reads this, Should I talk to my grandpa about getting a nurse to come in a few days a week to check on him? Or should I just keep asking my boyfriend to take me there even though he might get upset with me for asking all the time? Or should I call my sister who gave up on my dad and my grandparents and tell her she needs to start helping out. I am really at a loss on what to do.. I think maybe he is just getting lonely and needing someone there to talk to but, I don't really know. It's just really hard to keep asking to be taken there by my boyfriend when gas prices are so high and we don't make enough money to spend. Maybe Im just a bad grand daughter. I don't know. Well I guess Im done typing.. When my boyfriend gets home and I tell him I have to go there I hope he doesn't get upset about it cause he has plans on his day off.
Oh well I guess I have to live with it.
probably should have mummed this
