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What are you waiting for?
That it's typically those who are silent are the ones in need.
I'm not even sure who on here will give a crap. I write because my heart is too heavy to be by itself right now... and no one I thought cared for me will give me the hour I need to just .... I don't even what I need.
A hug would be nice. A conversation that involves nothing negative. A joke. A good fucking cry with someone, because this crying for hours by myself shit needs to end...
I rarely post the shit I go through. I've learned people don't like to read it. And even less actually do anything about it. Maybe it's flabbergasting. or.... fuck. I don't even know what it could be.
I'll start with the burning question that's on a lot of people's list, some of them I answered. Some I didn't because I got sick of having to go through it.... and then 80% of those I told didn't really understand... either because they don't have kids or never had a custody battle.
July 31st and August 24th I went to court.
The 31st I was summoned by Aria's dad... Whom I'll refer to throughout as Buster.
I hadn't even received a copy of proposed entry from his lawyer. The first thing that happened was... this lawyer withdrew herself from the case... if I know anything it's because he didn't pay her.
So now we're both there without lawyers..... The judge had drawn up the agreed judgment entry... To keep our order as is.... OMFG what a waste of time energy and money for me. I hadn't slept, I was emotionally distraught... and for nothing.
What did he want? To go from 24 hours a month, to 50/50... he's an idiot.
The only other thing that happened was the judge said that only when Buster pays substantially towards his child support for me (which includes his other 2 kids since it's always equally divided between the 3) he can revisit this idea...until than the order stands, once he does he doesn't have to pay to restart the motion.
My grievance you ask? Well typically lawyers in something like this don't just withdraw it's from non-payment... so he never really paid for the motion and now he'll be allowed reopen later without a new motion.... whiskey tango foxtrot
August 24th we went for the non-payment of his child support in the last year.. where he straight up lied to the lawyer... and than argued with me about it. Seriously? He's that stupid.. you're going to argue with me about a situation that is in clear black and white? In the end after he left, the magistrate had it pulled, looked at and than it was filed out along with the order to pay me and to appear in January to purge and for sentencing if he doesn't. Its September 18th.... not a penny yet...And I don't foresee it happening. Fine. Here's his get out of jail free card. *lights on fire to watch it smolder to ash*
I will be asking for maximum sentencing.
