alright just to give you all an update, this started out as a simple observation on a couple of mums i had ran into on a couple of very common topics.
i choose to add this to my blog because i found it a very interesting topic for discussion however i didnt want to crowd up MUM's with it, i just thought i would put it in my blogs to get feedback and opinions on it.
so here we go
Ok so peep this, only just yesterday, ( as always ) there was a mum basically asking guys about big girls vs skinny girls, plastic vs natural, and there are constant MUM's of this nature and in every discussion group known to mankind some form of the topic will come up.
now what struck me as interesting is a MUM came up asking if age mattered or if it was just a number.
now there was alot of response saying yes its just a number.
but there was also a bit of response from people saying how they wouldnt date someone as old as their parent or as young as their child and of course with varrying opinions and responses etc...
now with all that being said, wouldnt you think the same concepts would apply.
if a guy says he is not into BBW's then of course the typical response is he is superficial, what about whats in the head, what about a sense of humour. all the politically correct things to say in that discussion.
but when age is discussed none of that really comes up or makes an appearance in discussion.
now after this mum was posted i had got some varrying opinions some with some very valid points.
the main thing that came up as a topic of discussion was that the two couldnt be compared because one is a physical appearance and the other has to do with age, which isnt physical.
"Maturity is the issue, not so much the age I believe.."
"My argument is that when it comes to age (dating older or younger), a number of factors contribute such as emotional, dependency, Oedipus conflict (parental conflict), maybe even control. I don't think the correlations between dating BBW's & age relationships are the same. To me, the suggestions of being superficial, whats in the head, or a sense of humour don't apply here. One refers to appearance, the other to maturity...."
"I think they are Different. If someone craves BBW it's probably all a Physical thing....For an relationship eith 2 people of Very Different age groups I think mentally they need to be on a sililar pattern. What the point in dating if One wants to Party every night and the other prefers Home and Dining."
now these are quotes from comments on the MUM ( not all of them i just selected a couple ) there where many more, as i said each have made very valid points.
however in my opinion they also proved my point, which is its all mental.
the argument is, age is different and cant relate because basically the people are at two different points in there life and maturity is an issue etc. however maturity and life issues are all mental and not so much physical which brings us right back to the original question.
if i choose a skinny woman or BBW the same age as me,however she acts very immature why would a rule out someone with a large age difference who acts MORE mature then the woman my same age?
feedback is greatly appreciated and we will work on the assumption that all persons involved are of legal age.
