Is it me or does everyone find it strange that some men on this site think that its a good idea to have a profile pic showing them in their underwear, while they have a hard on? Yes I know its a way to get around the censorship. but it just looks stupid to me, still its better than seeing a mans bits all hanging out.
Yes I know it seems to be getting the norm for women to start having a profile pic showing themselves in their underwear, but women just seem to show off much more tastefully. I have no problem with men showing their chests off, and if women or men want to see the rest then just ask the person.
As for me, well I used to have nudes locked away on another site, and only let people who asked to see. Obviously i didn't get many requests, didn't expect many either LOL. The question is, would i do the same here? Well to be honest I haven't been asked, and I don't have any strong desire to show my bits.
Its the same with asking for nudes on the site or searching for them. I never ask any woman to see them nude and i don't particularly rate anyone to see them either. I'll rate you, but thats because i'd rate everyone no matter what. If i need 'spanking the monkey' material then i have been on the net long enough to know where to get it for free. To be honest i'd sooner talk and get to know people better. I know how bad i am at starting conversations, my best friends reminds me how bad i was when we first started talking LOL. So if you fancy a chat, just give me time to get going and see where it leads.