Okay so I may be a heathen and I may be going to hell in some peoples eyes but I figure you can only go to hell if you believe in it.
Since forever I have always said that I would let my children choose whether or not they wanted to be baptised and to what faith. I would never want to push a faith on to them... it's the same way my mother felt with me which is why I'm not baptised.
Well my daughter's father believes that if she is not baptised she'll go to hell and be damned for the rest of her life. I'm really against it but I figure there are bigger battles that I'll need to win in the future.
The problem is that he wants to take her 3 hours away to get the baptism done to the church he was baptised in. She is 5 weeks old today and he wants to take her soon, but I feel it's going to be awkward for me because only his family would get to go. I'm not sure what I should do and it irritates me. BLAH.
