I contacted my ex husband about getting his lawyer information and he contacted me also by email that my lawyer needs to contact his lawyer about this information. The information that I wanted from my ex he could not give to me, however, about his lawyer.
Here is what is going on though: I just found out that my ex wants to get a restraining order against me and if he does this he will not be able to stay in contact with his children as I am the custodial parent. But I still have some stuff of mine that is in his possession that he has to send to me. So I felt like, well, if he gets a restraining order against me I may not be able to get my stuff back from him.
Anyhow, I felt like that there was one more option for me to do in all of this. I called my ex's post office of the Inspector General and spoke with a man named Fred Hall about this situation. He told me that for one, my ex can not get a restraining order against me since I live in Nebraska and he lives in Alabama. Then he said that since I do have a lawyer, I need to contact her so that she can contact my ex's lawyer about getting my stuff back. But that is only if it states in the decree that my ex is responsible for sending me my stuff.
I also told Mr. Hall that I was recieving child support as he was the one to talk to if I was not recieving anything from him. I then told him about his new wife claiming that she is not recieving any child support from her ex husband and her ex is also in the military and he told me that the military should be able to help her out in this matter if she fights for it. But if she is doing nothing about it then, that is her problem and if they are financially strapped then "I guess you get what you paid for". Or else she is just lieing about not getting any child support at all...who knows really. Either way she should be able to get child support and if she is not fighting for it then I guess she is just not wanting to get help.
Anyhow, I will not change anything when it comes to the child support at this time...Mr. Hall advised that I should not do anything. I should just wait for my ex to get it changed.
