How do people get themselves into a situation that they never really wanted to get into? More importantly is why? I have been in several of these situations and have tried to avoid several more. My latest one came from an unexpected source. I've been trying to resolve it as best as I can, BUT, I never seem to escape it's grasp. I feel as if I'm getting sucked even deeper the more I try to escape. It's become a huge area of quicksand, and I have no one to help. Why does this happen? And how do I get out? I wish I had answers, but I don't. Why?