I have learned in life that you can not find someone to fix you and heal you...You have to fix yourself...Only then can you find true happiness...Never be ashamed of who you are, both on the outside and the inside. Once you accept yourself, then the rest of the world can accept you...Never forget you are beautiful even when someone decides to look but not see...We live and learn, make mistakes, we learn the hard way or the easy way, we make choices, and decisions, in the end, we choose our path, we carry our own blame. Don't let your past define who you are now. Don't let your memories fog your future. You can't re-write your past but you can move on and change yourself. No matter where you come from or who raised you or how bad your life has been, you make your life what it is, blame is a dead end...You're human. Making mistakes is part of what we do. It's how we go about fixing them that matters...Just remember the trials in life aren't always bad. You gain wisdom and courage from everything you go through in life..Have compassion, Be humble, Apologize sincerely, Hold the door, Say please and thank you, Hug people, Don't judge, Love earnestly, and above all, Forgive...Life is a precious thing that has no guarantees so live well, laugh often, and show those that you love how much you care when you get the chance..." God, who is rich in mercy, made us alive with Christ even when we were dead in transgressions it is by grace you have been saved" Ephesians 2:4-6...God who began a good work in you will bring it to completion. He will complete all the plans He has for you as you trust in Him. Philippians 1:6