If you really want to turn on a true lady, start matching her loyalty. Be there for her. Hold her hand in public, grip them in private. Look her in the eyes as you lay her down. Kiss her hand, and release all of your senses into that first kiss, as well as the very last. Follow through with your intentions, never leaving room for doubts. Make her feel safe. Most importantly, always be a gentleman and make sure she climaxes first and often.