I was just thinking about love. How we all chase it and in bad or past relationships, expect that it will come back. Its not something we can find or make magically appear. I'm talking about relationship love not love for family an friends. Love is lust. You know that feeling of euphoria we get when we have lust for someone? I believe that is really love. Thats what love is the rest is just a side show of care, concern and tradition. We of course learn to care for and have feelings for each other. But when the love leaves the formalities should to. You can still be friends I just don't understand how people can say I love you if they don't have that feeling? How can we neglect our relationships and then when they leave us, our instinctive fear of rejection causes us to try an mend what had already been broken beyond repair? If its gone be real, its better for the both of you. Move on an find a person who again makes you feel that way. Not saying its easy to just go from one to the next, but someone will eventually hold that feeling inside you for a long time. God did not intend for us to settle for one person. The church has messed us all up. Religious or not we still have these basic religious morals of relations installed. The institution of marriage was made when the life expectancy was less than 30. If he did intend us to be for life than why does everyone cheat ,divorce, deceive, and go down other avenues in search of happiness? I believe that he wants us to just be happy. That feeling (lust) is happy. I've said before that happiness is a mind set of falsities. Don't strive for happiness you'll never find it, strive for peace of mind then you will be happy. I want to be able to stay there forever and will forever chase it as should you. Why can't everyone just accept that we are really just primal animals and not machines? We stay with people cause thats what we have been programmed to do not bred to do. We were made to love not hurt the ones we've loved. I just wish people would more follow there heart and feelings. More so than morals. Most morals are oppressive beliefs of men that thought the world was flat.Its time everyone just got real honest with themselves it would make alot of people happier and the world wouldn't be so fucked up. Make love not war. Your only morals should be Peace, Love, and Happiness.-
