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If a man wants you

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition to save you from your headache. Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then NO, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is! Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You will be mad at yourself later for staying when things are not better. The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, and he's not going to treat you any differently! Always have your own set of friends separate from his Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up! Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later. You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are! Even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a God. He is a man, nothing more nothing less. Never let a man define who you are. Never borrow someone else's man. If he cheated with you, he will cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. All men are NOT dogs! You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two way street. You need time to heal between relationships, there is nothing cute about baggage! Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you... a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary. Dating can be fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right. Find a guy, who calls you beautiful instead of hot. Who calls you back when you hang up on him. Who will stay awake just to watch you sleep. Wait for the guy who kisses your forehead. Who wants to show you off to the world when you are in your sweats. Who holds your hand in front of his friends. Wait for the one who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares about you And how lucky he is to have you. Wait for the one who turns to his friends and says, "That's her!.." Make him miss you sometimes... When a man always knows where you are and you're always readily available to him... He will take it for granted. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. Never make a man a priority, if all you are to him is an option!
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