hurtnomore07 Southern Mama's blog: "idiots"

Just trying to figure out what does it take to be loved? Is it actually the way you feel in your heart? Is the color of your eyes, the color of your hair, the smell of your perfume or the clothes that you wear? Is it the way you look, the way you cook? Is it in the size of your person ( body)? Why do people judge you by the way you look and not by your heart? Everybody has feelings, no matter how big or small they are.. We all have a heart and need love from the start.. So why judge from the outside, look into the heart. We have need love and people to care about... So if you have an answer of what it takes to be loved let me know, I'm wondering what it takes..

Being around people you care about is great, always let them know it before it's too late.. Given a chance,I would like to prove, how much I think and care for you... Being with you, is a dream come true, but I know I'm not the one for you.. I sit alone and I start to think of you, instead of happiness I become blue.. I want to be the one who is by far the Best to make you forget of all the rest.. But being me is not good enough, I'm just me and that's all I am

I want to wish each and everybody a very Happy Thanksgiving.... We all need to stop and reflect. I have numerous reasons to be thankful. 1. Being alive 2. My family , (my daughter,son, grandbaby, and son-in-law, and the rest of my family. 3.Friends in my life (at work, in life and on here.) I am thankful for evevrything in my life that has happened this year, good or bad..If it was bad, it happened for a reason, and hopefully something good has happened due to it. Some of my new friends are a result of my marriage breaking up,if it hadn't I would not have gotten online and I would have missed the opportunity to become friends with all of you. I would also have missed the chances I have had to meet some wonderful people.. So not only on Thanksgiving am I thankful, but each and evevryday all year through... So, Happy Thanksgiving to you and you and you...............

Why is it there are times in your life everything seems to be going so well and then Bam, The freaking rug gets pulld out from under your feet? Why is it there are times that you are so lonely and don't want to go but then there is a Special somebody you meet? Why is it so many of us wear our hearts on our sleeve,and then its all broken when that special one leaves? Why is it that there are times in our lives that it's filled with nothing but hurt, hatred, and mistrust then we find somebody special and we push them away? Why is it loving somebody so much you get all excited to hear their vioce, just get a glimpse of them it makes you weak in the knees? Why is it life has to be full of WHY IS ITS?

When a woman passes you by you should first notice her fresh sent, fresh like the days early sunrise warming the fresh morning dew on the grass. As she passes, you should look at her beauty, not just the outside , but the beauty of what a woman has to offer. As she passes you by you should remember the moment, dream about it in your thoughts for a minute, then turn to see her again, not to look at what a man see's , but to gasp at how life has just changed your heart forever and how a simple walk in the park on a bright spring day can make you feel loved , even if it is by someone you may never know. alot of people only look at the outside everybody needs to look at the inside, because you never know what type of person you are passing up if you look outward not inward.....

Ok this kinda for anybody from N.C., my son is looking for a cheap car that is in good shape, and doesn't have alot to pay for it. He's in college and needs a means of transportation to and from. He is a good kid who was awarded a Scholarship to college in the 7th grade. So if anybody knows where to find a good car around $500.oo it would really be appreciated.

We don't care if you talk to other guys. We don't care if you're friends with other guys. But when you're sitting next to us, and some random guy walks into the room and you jump up and tackle him, without even introducing us, yeah, it pisses us off. It doesn't help if you sit there and talk to him for ten minutes without even acknowledging the fact that we're still there. We don't care if a guy calls >OR TEXTS< you, but at 2 in the morning we do get a little concerned. Nothing is that important at 2 a.m. that it can't wait till the morning. Also, when we tell you you're pretty/ beautiful/ gorgeous/ cute/ stunning, we freaking mean it. Don't tell us we're wrong. We'll stop trying to convince you. The sexiest thing about a girl is confidence. Yeah, you can quote me. Don't be mad when we hold the door open. Take Advantage of the mood im in. let us pay for you! dont "feel bad" We enjoy doing it. It's expected. Smile and say "thank you." Kiss us when no one's watching. If you kiss us when you know somebody's looking, we'll be more impressed. You don't have to get dressed up for us. If we're going out with you in the first place, you don't have to feel the need to wear the shortest skirt you have or put on every kind of makeup you own. We like you for who you are and not what you are. honestly, i think a girl looks more beautiful when she's just in her pj's. or my tshirt and boxers, not all dolled up Don't take everything we say seriously. Sarcasm is a beautiful thing. See the beauty in it. Don't get angry easily. Stop using magazines/media as your bible. Don't talk about how hott Chris Brown, Brad Pitt, or Jesse McCartney is in front of us. It's boring, and we don't care. You have girlfriends for that. Whatever happened to the word "handsome"/"beautiful" I'd be utterly stunned by a girl who greeted me with "Hey handsome!" instead of "Hey baby/ stud/ cutie/ sexy" or whatever else you can think of. on the other hand im not sayin i woulndnt like it ether ; ) Girls, I cannot stress this enough: if you aren't being treated right by a guy, dont wait for him to change. ditch his sorry ass, disgrace to the male population and find someone who will treat you with utter respect Someone who will honor your morals. Someone who will make you smile when you're at your lowest. Someone who will care for you even when you make mistakes. SOMEONE WHO WILL LOVE U, NO MATTER HOW U MAKE THEM FEEL. Someone who will stop what they're doing just to look you in the eyes....and say "i love you" ..and actually mean it. Give the nice guys a chance Guys repost this if you agree Girls repost this if you think it's cute Every Guy who isn't a jerk will agree with this, so we hope that all the girls that read this will repost this *Holdin Hands Girls :If you want to hold his hand, gently bump into it a couple of times. Guys : Grab it if it happens more than once. *Cuddling Girls : When you want to cuddle with him, tell him you're cold Guys : Automatically move closer to her. *Movies Girls : During a movie, if he puts his arm around you, tilt your head on his shoulder Guys : Lift her chin up and kiss her. *Loving each other Guys : When she tells you she loves you, look deep into her eyes, give her a peck on the lips, and tell her you love her too... And mean it. *Laying below the stars Girls : When you're both laying under the stars, put your head on his chest and close your eyes as you listen to his steady heart beat

Well today I sit here with mixed emotions. My son is graduating High School @ 10 a.m. . It seems like only yesterday I was dreading the day that his first day of school would start. I am so blessed to have such a WONDERFUL son. He has made me very Proud.With an A/B Honor Roll report card everytime this year. A scholarship to college . I will be sitting in the stands with a heart bursting with joy, excitement, love and admiration for my son. I will be there as both parents, because his dad is no longer in the picture. So to all of you who have a kid graduating you know how I feel, and to all of you please do just ONE big favor could you post comments to him on here letting him see that they're nice people in this world who does care about people. Please help me show some love to THE GRADUATING CLASS OF 007........

some people are pure idiots and don't pay a bit of attention to other drivers coming down the road. i was almost t-boned on my way home tonight. i am really pissed off, people need to pay more attention to these things called stop signs.