well i called my lawyer and going thru with a power of atty so we can take steps to throw out the deadbeat brother plus if he doesn't go to family court thursday i have leverage to get him out of this house now i have to get rolling on the reverse morgage to fix this dump and pay all the bills he caused in the last 2 years as soon as that is done i can put my mother in daycare and i can finally get a job and a car without all the stress i am dealing with now. I am looking for some peace in my life and i am doing my best to find it and go on with MY life which is at a complete standstill as i said i'm a fighter and don't back down i may feel defeated at times but i will keep fighting.